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okay, i like most of them but some of them i hate
any good tips on how to "dump" a friend ?
I reckon they probably won't hang around with youy any longer.
Anyway, I hate some of my mates in a weird way. In the same way you get really angry with your Mum even though she's always nice. It's just when you know people really well and feel comfortable around them, you always give them shit.
It's all about LIVE.
If there's one this Paul Simon taught me it... no wait, wrong thread.
but for, erm, months maybe i've just thought of them more and more as complete twats. i don't know why i just can't be bothered to make any effort to be near them or talk to them.
unfortunately i think the nice friends like them and seem pretty determined that we all hangout together...so the key is to get rid of the twats without offending the nice ones too badly.
replying to their emails. Tell other people you don't like them and avoid seeing them.
it's easier if they live in another city.
but i'd just say stop inviting them places, hang out with other people and don't accpet any invitations from them. sooner or later they'll get the hint.
Harsh as it sounds, I made a mega conscious effort to cut a mate out of my life and even though I'm still good mates with his brother, I managed it. I really didn't like who he'd turned into and I just wanted the stress of his continual SHIT outta my life. Now I just hang around with people who are happy and don't take themselves seriously. Wicked!
TO THIER FACES!
Or you could try and sort it out, by confronting them. Or just take one thing, turn it into an argument, and then you won't have to talk to them :D
(this is possibly the worst advice I've ever given)
or come to see me when i'm hanging around your front garden? :(
i just try my best not to get involved
a sad thread. :(
as some friends went down the path of drug addiction...
I just stopped seeing them, stopped hanging out with them, it's really sad actually as I was very close with some of them.
even though you walk around the house with heavy metal t-shirts and boxers on?!
crazy! you should put that on your cv. "will walk around office semi-naked if required"
They also started cutting me out of things, that's what made me decide to stop seeing them.
It's sad really, but it almost felt like the friendship ran it's course.
We will only see each other once every few weeks and we still get on alright, but there's almost no 'spark' between us now.
between mates. They suck.
I suppose it's cos they've never robbed me...