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Quick question - Are you they type of person who holds a grudge? If so what things do you hold grudges about?
but you once looked at my cat a bit funny, so I'm not answering
in the flesh who you perceive you have a 'grudge' against somehow lessens the feeling.
If people show empathy or remorse or accept they may be wrong, or bascially any vital signs in terms of trying to table an 'understanding', or just being plain honest, then I think it would be silly to hold a grudge.
what even i think i deserve. currently only one is treated like that and while it's probably unfair it's for everyone's good i think.
I've usually forgotten the reason behind the disagreement about one hour afterward.
I don't feel like I've been wronged badly enough so maybe I would hold a grudge. I don't know.
i never forget.
where do you think bobby grindrod's gone?
Don't you worry.
but then, I never get that upset with people really.
hold grudges, although i sometimes cant forget what someone might have acted liek and may be wary for a very long time afterwards.
Why do you ask? are you the grudger or the grudgee?
There are people I don't really trust any more but that's more down to them having let me down or similar.
Also 'Morning!'???: You're lucky the server clock runs slow!
I still havn't forgiven my housemate for eating my pizza. 2 years ago.
someone has to really fuck me over, or say really horrid things about me. But when they do it festers away inside me for ages and then all of sudden I blow my top!
So you solve such disputes in topless mud-wrestling? I hope there's an audience.
Rich and I were most distressed at how lame the cat fight was that we witnessed on leaving Tatty Bogle's.
tell us more...
It was one shove and then one of them telling the other she was just a 21 year old girl who'd had too much to drink.
involved it would have been entertaining I'm good in fights - good old Port Talbot upbringing!
i'll be staying away from you for a while then. ;p
i can believe that...
'if you go into battle with bad blood, it'll be spilled by morning.'
you never know when you'll need someone to save your ass and vice versa.
the people I hold grudges with, I actually wish you would drop of the face of the planet!
If I never saw them again it would be too soon!
thats not something to hold a grudge over - I mean big huge things I hohld grudges over!
I don't hold grudges, it's silly.
I don't forget though.
about two days ago that I realised you actually weren't called alan.
Thats funny! I almost reintroduced him to my housemate as Allan!
But I thought it would be funny to introduce him as Allan - I didn't though!
squirrel who introduced you alan.
If I'd known it'd take off, I'd have never have started it.
I'll make it up to you somehow.
as long people realise that it isn't actually my name!
that doesn't sound like me AT ALL. Ha ha.
I had no idea BG was responsible for all this. You're always so pleased with yourself for calling him Tom!
NOT Alan. It's Tom. Like mine. It's a good solid name. Tom. T O M. Tom.
it's a good name. My cat now is called William. My next one is going to be called Purry McKittyface.
but my Mum calls it Bonjour.
I'm calling it either Chairman Miaow or Lester Bangs.
or Winston Purrchill.
Probably the best name actually.
is the stupidest cat name in the world.
is a great cat name. Like the synthesiser?
I'm not sure.
There were three cats: Korg, Moog and Hammond. Now there is just Korg aka Bonjour.
that's nice, but sad for the dead ones. I want a cat SO much.
maybe they got signed?
Got run over. The other one just didn't want to come with us when we moved.
cats hold grudges FOREVER.
you can look after my mum's whenever she's away.
but thats kind of worse.
Forgiving but not forgetting!
it's impossible to forget. you just don't. unless you're my nan, she'd forget.
happened months and months ago and this weekend something reminded me of it and now I'm seething over it!
thats not healthy. its probably hurting you more than it is them if you're seething
but i can;t think of any examples. I am less inlclined to hold a grudge the older i get. I had a big fall out with a friend who kinda made me out to be the bad guy and really made things difficult for the friends we shared but i have decided to let thing go and we are friends again now. if that had happened 5 or so years ago i would have held a huge grudge
and too right. If you act like a cunt, then why should you be let off. Grudges = Justice.
Angry young man.
i find that my natural indignation fades with time. it is actually an effort to hold a grudge for ages, which makes me think it isn't natural.
I'm really happy at the moment - I sorted this out in my head over the weekend - and I just wanted everyone elses view about grudges because I know I have my Mothers mentality when it comes to them.
thats ok then.
I know I'll be fine!
i can do, depends on how bad the 'offence' is.
loyalty from my friends is a big thing with me.
why han? who has wronged you?
and how will you smite them?