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any good ideas how to tell a girl you "like" them ?
Straight about it.
It took me ages to actually tell the girl.
But it worked.
Don't fuck around. Get straight to the point.
And don't take too long.
I guess you just have to come out with it, and don't run away from whatever she has to say. Just don't make it sound totally out of the blue. Build up to it or something?
The first bit contradicts the second bit. *Is stupid*
you should already know what to do...
You're great for somebody's self-confidence Lyle ;)
How confident someone is?
I'm confused :(.
and shout it at her across a busy pub/dancefloor.
Then go and tell her in case she didn't hear. If she turns you down, tell her you don't care and she's ugly.
the don Big G!
mumble 'i like you a lot' incoherently a lot until she gets really irate with you because she can't understand what you're saying, then shout it at her
even if she turns you down, her immediate shock and surprise will be worth it
and don't write them a letter
apparently it makes them feel 'awkward' despite what millions of films and TV programmes would have you believe
Really really romantic.
Even if it doesn't work in the long run, it may work for that night. ;)
That or she may get really scared and run away.
you must have favourite ways to find out surely ?
I'll be the girl.
You can be, err.... you.
bit of dutch courage, just be honest - as long as the lady in question isnt a really good friend (or relative) whats there to lose?....if she knocks you back, get pissed and make a fool of yourself.
Plan on telling her, go out for coffe and then feel awkward and sit in silence for an hour. That's bad.]
She probably already knows anyway, unless you don't know her that well. In which case you probably shouldn't worry.
I can't believe I'm offering advice on this, how my friends would laugh...
her drunk, ask for a shag, deal with the consequences later.
realise this doesn't actually help. But it's all I have.
as a girl, just tell her, she'll be pleased even if she says no. Unless:
a)she has a boyfriend
b)you've never spoken to her before
c)you asked her before, and she said no
d)you're liek, really freakishly ugly.
as a girl, just tell her also.
Alcohol may help, but not too much.
If she likes you too, kiss her on the cheek or forehead because that's sweet and say that's made you really happy. it sounds ghey but does work.
Don't do that. Try not to over-think things. Just be honest and tell her. She'll be flattered either way and at least you'll know for sure then and not have to wonder at what might have been...
if the girl likes you, she won't care how you do it. I mean, you wouldn't think 'oh, this man is really hot, but now he's written me a letter I think he's a lame-o'. She'll think whatever is sweet.
You don't have to 'tell' her. Next time your out and things are going well (your making her laugh etc) stare directly into her eyes while shes talking and as soon as she finishes lean in and kiss her (usually best to keep your toung to yourself at the start). If she goes for it your in, If not then don't get to hung up about it. One thing most guys forget is that if a woman isn't interested in you soon after meeting you she never will be and there's nothing you can do about it.
Rick the Cunt.
yes. I was speaking the TRUTH.
Soup100 is right. Women are much better at picking up on this shit than guys and from what I know they hate guys who haven't got their act together when it comes to this shit. Just be a man and do it. I think getting with women is easy but thats cause I got past the whole fear of rejection years ago, I realised theres nothing to fear. Worst case is you feel arkward for a few mins but that will pass.
she probably suspects anyway ... jus like to get it out in the open because im a terrible terrible overthinker and i'd probably go mad eventually
so far ppl
want me to do it for you?
hole in the bottom of the popcorn box....eh? eh? anyone? oh.
ooh i like that one fullerov ... its good cos
a)im a big emo coward
b)shes already friend
so it might skip that first moment of stuttering awkwardness. but what would i know, i started a thread on the internet about relationship advice :S
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