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Me, I'm a 5.
I'm not an ogre, but I'm definitely not sexy.
serious answer: 0
The handful of women I know have found me sexy thought/ think I'm a 9 but mostly I think I'm about a 4.
I'm not ugly, I'd say I was like a 7 but not in a sexy way
but completely incompetent in every other way and have terrible posture
it seems so obvious.
but yeah don't think it's really an innate talent or something
but...pay attention and don't be weird...that about right?
you can be too selfish, or don't seem into it or you set the wrong mood or your oral technique is wrong or a bunch of other stuff. Also you can come too quickly i suppose.
but it's sort of the same thing as for music. People have different music tastes but that doesn't mean there's not some properly shite music being made out there.
ED, cumming way to quick and for whatever reason not being able to build pleasure despite it. Being clueless at oral sex etc. I think bad sex is pretty common. Particularity if both partners don't make any effort to find what pleases the other
ED reasons, cumming to quickly (and responding via shame rather then by building things up again), suffering from performance anxiety, going through the motions when both partners are tiered. Oral sex is also a midfield and can take some time getting used to and finding the correct ticks.
Basically any sexual relation where one or both partners arnt communicating well will result in all round poor sex.
you are such considerate lovers!
about oneself. Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder
Is it sexy?
Or me on a good day.
varies quite a lot. voice normally unsexy but not always.
I'm bringing it back, in fact.
Ravishing Rick Rude/10
compared to super sexy people like Kate Upton I'm probs about a 0.5. But men I think are sexy want to have sex with me so I can't be that bad.
One of the few parts of me I am not anxious about
it's all opinionated though. there seems to be a general taste as to what's considered 'sexy'/'attractive' in people (like chart music). a lot of people might find someone attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean they're objectively attractive. it just means they look a bit like someone who was the star of a recent blockbuster.
Like I'll keep noticing people looking at me and when I get to s mirror I'm like, ooh cool customer
we must all be growing up.
some people seem to find me sexy and other don't
No one else has seen it in years. I must be propa sexi!
Delete asap please.
Reckon no one has/will ever found me attractive, luckily I have a winning personality, oh...
very hard to judge this sort of thing innit, think i would tick a fair few of the sexiness requirements, but would somehow still come up at best as average.
could imagine people thinking i'm attractive, find it harder to be imagine being thought of as sexy
i'm at least a 7
I'm cringing so hard it's starting to hurt.
You know what's sexy? THE BRISTOL SCALE.
Get thee to my stool thread post haste!
It stopped being cool to be modest about 5 years ago.
it must take so much effort to even remain aware of what is and isn't popular nowadays.
Although objectively I'm likely an 8 pushing up to 9.
I had a weird convo with a guy about how threatening he and the other guys at work find me.
Been asked out on loads of dates by the office hotties too so thats pretty annoying/awkward.
to the causes of feminism/Marxist thought when basically all multicellular life is pathetically eager to please, promote, or pleasure me based purely on my facial symmetry.
You would be my play-doh of we chanced across one another.
need something to measure myself against.
Once I put all my cycling gear on I'm a strong 7.5
This is now the cycling thread
it is pretty hard not to lose respect for a lot of people when they've asked you to degrade them in ways reminiscent of the last days of Sodom despite having thinly-veileds or being married or claiming to be a big believer in whatever. Although it's also kind of interesting how everyone, no matter how empowered or informed, is basically a slave to their libidinal instincts/the person inflaming those instincts. Sometimes it makes me sick, though.