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And been taken aback by it
If so who and why
No i'm not even on Facebook plz
sometimes if i'm really bothered/baffled by it i'll block them
who blocked me. I only noticed because his comments clearly weren't showing in a discussion.
What makes it LOL-worthy was that he was a massive libertarian wang who I guess got offended by my being lefty in comments of our mutual friend.
but you definitely didn't notice, from what I recall.
Or would have if I'd noticed. Which I did not.
dunno why, i just added her again. she hasnt deleted me since or mentioned it so im sure everythings fine, whatever
as did my uncle after about a week
dont see them enough to ask why
so i only saw her a few weeks ago and before that it was almost ten years
I live with that friend (no.1) and also live with friend no.2 who is dating friend no.1's ex's best friend, meanwhile I date friend no.1 ex's other best friend. However, after the break up happened the friend no.1 ex became a bit crackers and this caused a series of arguments between her and the two thinly veileds, resulting in the ex brexiting herself from everyone else.
So in cases like these, anything that gets me further away from it is fine by me. Was quite glad to be deleted by her. Especially because as she’s such an awful person, she probably doesn’t deserve oxygen. Titrifle.
I didn't do much wrong here. I've struggled to remember other times it's happened but usually comes back to me being a bit of a twat.
"I live with that friend (no.1) and also live with friend no.2 who is dating friend no.1's ex's best friend, meanwhile I date friend no.1 ex's other best friend."
Are you sure?
and other days where I'm more sure than other ones than that
"Oh it's my mate Elliot's birthday tomorrow, I'll just log in and..."
by friends-of-friends who i didn't know that well - but it's always been people who had added me in the first place, so what the fuck are they playing at?
are the worst
makes me feel big for surviving the cull
but when i used to be, i was aimlessly perusing my feed one evening and saw one of those "MY REAL FRIENDS KNOW WHO THEY ARE AND IF YOU'RE DELETED THEN YOU'RE JUST A RIGHT BASTARD" cull-announcing type posts from an ex-colleague, and i was like heh. and then she disappeared off my feed. and then i was blocked.
I think he got fed up with me constantly telling him to stop sharing racist/xenophobic posts that, after 30 seconds of Googling, was easy to see that the so called "facts" in them were completely made up.
but also BLOCKED me completely, which i happened to notice later when i saw an old comment from him but with his profile now unclickable.
was really bizarre cos we'd gotten on alright in person and never really communicated on fb other him occasionally commenting on my posts. deletion might have been fair enough on the grounds that we'd probably never see each other again, but no idea what blocking was supposed to achieve - if he thought i was going to try and get involved in the break up drama in some way that he probably didn't know me very well at all.
wasn't particularly bothered by it but found it hilariously odd behaviour.
Blocking someone when they haven't done anything to you - very insecure.
they'd have to be really irked over nothing though, barely post anything on there
save any bile for you berks
most irritating one was a girl who was friends with some of my other friends (didn't really know her too well - our only interaction was at a party where she opened with "Hi [Pervo], [small talk], you're a lesbian aren't you?", and then accused me of being homophobic when I was pretty taken aback and put her straight, LOL PUN INTENDED), who unfriended me randomly, re-added me after we hung out with our mutual friends and invited me to her wedding reception off the back of that, then unfriended me again about 6 months after the wedding reception.
every 1/2 months I notice my friends list goes down by 1.
when someone I lived with in halls, who I got on well with, deleted me. I still mull it over in my head as to what it could've been. Facebook is truly evil.
how many friends you have on there though? like even if you've had a look, why remember?
unfriended me seemingly straight away after we finished, which seemed a bit weird given that i don't really post so it's not likely that she was getting annoyed by my updates. makes it seem like she waited for graduation then immediately went through her friends list deciding which people she wasn't likely to speak to again
Someone I deleted re-added me within a day though, which was quite weird. He had a respectable number of friends, was pretty creepy that he noticed I'd gone when we hadn't spoken in years and I'd always thought he was a twat. Think I mentioned him on here before when he joined a group called "I was shocked when I realised 'woman' spelled backwards is 'kitchen'", which was the straw that broke the camel's back.
someone i'd fallen out with quite recently at the time (maybe a year before?) tried to add me, and when i declined, tried another 8 times over the next couple of years. and once on myspace.
And then I killed her pet
suggests they weren't merely giving their list a bit of a trim
don't like it if it is someone who added me in the first place, just seems unnecessary as it is so easy to mute people, if it is someone I added then I don't mind as it may have been presumptuous to add in the first place. I don't like noticing the number change as it is hard to figure out who it is, normally when I do realise who it is I'm not bothered. There is only one that I am still bothered by, person who I am in the same broad friend group as, though not close friends, always get on well with when I see them, always go and see his band when they play locally, now if I see them in a pub I'm not sure how to be around them, literally nothing worse in the whole world than being overly familiar with someone who doesn't like you.
only people i've deleted usually have been people who have added me but i don't really know them and i've later realised it's pointless having them, plus one old work colleague who i'd never ever communicated with other than asking for help at work, who was sharing a few too many right wing/hardcore loyalist posts for my liking.
do remember years ago deleting someone i didn't really like who had added me from a forum who awkwardly kept trying to re-add me.
save for about 5 (her husband, 1 other friend, and 3 other people I barely see). No idea why and not actually bothered.
Quite a few greyed out 'This account has been deactivated' instances in there.