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asking for a friend
...when it's time to tell them you'll know, and then you'll just tell them.
I found that the quickest way to fall in love with someone was to tell them you love them*
Needless to say, this excites me all the more.
but y'know prob not within a month of meeting them, that might be too quick but it depends really.
you dont refer to them as a girl or boy
that you'll both know around a month maybe two in
because desertshore, agressively_passive etc already did the sarcy ones
time to shit or get off the pot
Or are you wondering if you should be in love by now?
People fall in love at different speeds. It's ok to be in love and not declare it until you're comfortable doing so. Relax, say it when it feels right.
for once i agree with sadpunk
so he/she tells me, just worried it might freak the opposite out
Write them a long winded letter about how you feel and then send it recorded delivery to her, her lawyer and her parents.
In case they are holding out for your ultimate devotion
especially if it's very premature.
surely it should be when you are intoxicated with love for the person and you feel moved to say it.....unless this is usually inevitably followed by fear and then rejection, in which case just bottle it up until you feel you should let it all out.
put the song on n all
Hell in a handcart etc
i don't even know if you can properly get to know someone in two months though
an hour or two
just 2 months since "dating" or whatever
stating that unless they respond to your statement of love reciprocatively within 10 working days all ties will be permanently and irrevocably broken.
to increase response rates?
See how they react when they hear it.
if it's worth meeting up with a girl he got with at new years who is working in London next week while the person they are seeing is away, and she’s asking if they want to meet. If they did they certainly would only be doing so as a friend and would tell her the situation had changed, but doesn’t know if it’s even worth the bother/risk of that?
That friend clearly can't cope with meeting other people.
my friend is, yes
and this is a hilarious thing to get irked at
but it's my friend he should be diverting his attentions to really, i'm just a buffer
there is no honourable reason for you to want to meet her
who was working in London while the girl/boy my friend is seeing was away and now my friend isn't sure it was a good idea to say that he loved the girl/boy he is seeing after all" thread.
find out if it's a boy or a girl first