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Who's into it?
Married folk of DiS, tell all.
I'm sure we've all seen cuckholding porn let's be honest.
the only reason i'd get married would be so i could have sex with other men and it would be even hotter.
is denigrating the patriarchal and homophobic institution of marriage
(I'm getting very close to discussing my actually feelings about sex on DiS here which is making me feel a bit sick)
not sure how much this sort of stuff is similar to the porn-y version.
also you very much don't need to be intelligent to be into this :D
I wanted to punch him all the way through it
Long time since I read it but iirc it was very well written although the characters were cunts.
Sorry never been cuckolded to my knowledge.
the point the woman is making is that you might be into this if your education allows you to understand that monogamy is nothing more than a social construct.
don't necessarily agree but i can see the difference.
you very much don't need to be educated to be into this
he once made an ok cupid profile for 'his girlfriend' without even asking her.
Don't really think anybody on DiS is cool enough to be running an open relationship. Anyone?
didn't have YOU down as a prude.
Like sure, open relationships I can see the appeal of etc.
Also seems like the sort of thing reeeeaaaaaally creepy guys would be into.
ruining sex for all of us (except those of us well into creepy guys)
^^^totally gets it
^^^totally into it
Why just creepy men? There's plenty of 'creepy' women out there too (I'm sure i'll get a ^^^^ or something).
It's not something i would be interested in but I'm sure some women enjoy getting fucked by a man whilst their partner watches. Most people want to be desired. And if everyone is consenting then there's no big issue really, and I'm not sure some people would see it as creepy, just a kink.
But in my mind I file it in the same place as those people who practice that chastity stuff.
and all that but I find this all very strange.
Mind you, I suppose everyone has their little foibles…
answer me that!
But more as a display of benevolence as opposed to self-flagellation.
Who caught some young buck in bed with his wife, and instead of challenging him to a duel, or throwing him out of the window, just gave him a really sound bumming?
[just checking the bumming was consensual]
Fids - your dad did get consent right?
Thinks his Dad was Castlereigh ffs.
the cuckolding community is super racist and super sexist, most of them want black guys fucking their white wives and say things like "she's been blacked" and some even fantasize about putting the "black baby in her belly" they fetishize their racism and lack of respect for their wife into something more thrilling to them. turning her into a sex object for what they perceive to be dirty blacks is actually more of a domineering fetish than it seems on the surface.
don't mind saying i'm into something related to this but not this, i've read lots of forums and watched plenty of videos, mostly out of curiosity because it's so fucked up.
a one-way thing where the man asks the woman to fuck other men can turn quite weird and control-y.
are you sure this isn't just a case of the porn industry being racist rather than cuckolds/people interested in cuckoldry. I'm not saying people like this don't exist but I'm not entirely sure they're the majority.
They're different in that cuckolding is a specific sexual fetish, while an open relationship vaguely defines something between two people. Don't really see why you had to point this out.
and lol @ your juxtaposition of "the cuckolding community is super racist and super sexist" vs "i've read lots of forums and watched plenty of videos". Nice 'research' bro
couldn't care less if you think i am
care less about that!
Especially in the porn industry, but it's definitely much broader than this. Loads of people are into humiliation and that's a part of it for people.
Definitely a totally different thing to an open relationship though.
I think one of the big revelations about love and romance that one has as an adult, is the near certainty of infidelity over the course of any relationship that you are likely to have. It's something that you are going to have to deal with in different ways for the rest of your life. Cuck fetish is, I suppose, an attempt at trying to control feelings of insecurity, or to actually control anther's act of infidelity and make in on your terms. Can't say I'm into it, but I can sympathise.
that the vast majority of marriages are non-monogamous, but only a fraction openly so?
25% tops. every day a school day.
don't be so shallow
getting emotionally attached to women at work?
Fuck know. Guess I just ain't all that interested in the birds no more.
I'm not trying to say that every married person is constantly bonin' someone on the side, or even constantly considering boning somene
not saying it's not true but I'd guess that quite a few of these cases aren't because the marriages are open relationships.
"I'm in an open relationship" must be in, like, the top three lies people (dudes) tell to try and get a little side-play.
I would also carelessly add that calling any relationship "open" is a tautology. Every relationship is potentially 'open'... if the right person enters its sphere it becomes a love triangle...
as surely quite a few people would choose to terminate the relationship in question if someone did enter into it's sphere (Kim Gordon/Thurston Moore being a good example), at a guess I'd warrant this happens far more than the relationship transitioning into an open relationship.
For a totally anecdotal perspective I generally find most people who are/were in ongoing open relationships were open about this from the outset or during the relationship.
If you are at a point where your lover is going to be with someone else then you can leave them, you can ignore it or you can approve. Most instances end with the first option. It is only at this point that you can test how open your relation ship really is.
you proper know the lingo.
don't fully understand it
s'all love 4 u here
I'm possibly being a bit grumpy because my leg hurts and I've had to miss 3 games of football now.
I hope your leg heals soon
to get it checked and redressed. Was worse than I thought it was apparently. More annoying and a pain in the arse than anything else.
"In this respect, cuckolding attracts "the very highly educated," Paul says, adding that it’s “truly intellectual in its enterprise because it replaces sexual touch with humiliation and emotional pain, both of which are psychological. Most of what gives me physical pleasure has to go on in my brain. I'm totally being classist, but this isn't like people in redneck bars asking each other, 'You wanna fuck my wife?' It's much more complex. It's pleasure on a different level.""
:D what a fucking twat
Q "how do you find a cuckold* in a room of ten thousand people?"
A "don't worry, they'll fucking tell you."
*insert whatever kink as applicable
bit harsher using an orientation rather than just a hobby.
you replaced sexual orientation with a "kink"
I'm not saying you're a terrible person or anything.
(I heard it with non-monogamist I think. now *there's* an argument worth it's own thread)
but it don't make their personalities better in and itself
what a guy
Sometimes its due to a lack of imagination, if anything.
You must hand over 50% of your bananas to me and pick dirt and lice from my hair for a month
sport is just basically men pretending to be sperm. SCIENCE!
My wife! It is nice!
Not even really sure what cuckolding is.
good work saps
i just read the thread and try and piece together why i should be angry.
Also, thinking about what mits said up there, DO women ever get described as creepy? I'd never thought of it before, but I can't remember a woman ever described as being creepy. Obviously there's millions of horrendous things they do get called, but creepiness seems to be a male-only thing.
do men experience "creeped out-ness" as intensely as women seem to? I would argue that they don't.
- something to do with how people of varing gender are socialised to be
- something to do with women just choosing to not be shit more often than men
you could also argue men generally don't receive unsolicited attention from women. Or at least, nowhere near as much as women receive previously unsolicited attention from men.
Although tbh this is vaguely in line with your second point.
if men got unsolicited attention from women a lot more (coupled obvi with the kind of assault/harassment women suffer) it'd probably be a lot more annoying
there are some mens rights-type sites that actually have a bee in their bonnet about this. Not many men get described as being witch-like either, you don't see women getting all defensive about that
to actually enjoy this imo.
Unless crispin's right and they only let their wives have sex with people they consider irreversibly inferior (such as black people), so that they never feel threatened by them. But if thats the case then they obviously have other, bigger problems (such as being a racist fuck)
woah there buddy
you jumped up prick
I don't feel up to joining in
we shall never know
plenty of love for him about, I'll just never get it
see this is why you're all tedious cunts
i made a reasonable contribution to the thread and instead of just taking it at face value you act like i'm trolling (because i made a joke that one fucking time)
think i'm done here. haven't been posting much recently anyway because you're all massively boring.
cue unfunny sarcastic oh no post
can't wait to hear this, you all have a very loose and wrong interpretation of what the word meme means
and even if it was a meme, that alone isn't a reason to outright disregard somebody's opinion.
you chose to do that because you're one of these people that feels a tedious desire to belittle me as a troll because i probably said something once that annoyed you.
because you're all cliquey 30 something tryhard liberals
i can smell the humus when i log on
and there didn't seem to be anything wrong with what he originally posted?
a lot of kink depends on this sort of duality or deliberate cognitive dissonance, where you're getting of a bit on the fact that it's all a bit wrong BUT b/c it's all consensual and fun and that, when you really get down to it it's not wrong at all in any way.
So while I don't doubt some people are in odd emotional places, I don't think it's necessarily always that way?
Also yes all the weird race stuff ESPECIALLY prominent with the americans they're a funny bunch
idk i suppose this sort of kink is a symptom rather than a cause but i can't help feel that people properly into humiliation in sex should probably get therapy rather than indulge in it sexually and sort of 'accept' it (wouldnt go as far as to say this is universally true, but i strongly suspect it is in a lot of cases). But then i kinda distrust a lot of bdsm stuff in the same sort of what so what do i know eh
not sure I've got the space or brain ability to write a proper thing about it though. sorry for the cop-out.
Can't cuck, won't cuck
Just picture it.
TheWza stripped but for trademark leather chaps, in full blackface, sodomising your woman while you eat doritos and sip ribena.
That doesn't get your heart racing?
Wza's selfie taken on the shitter at Tebay Services*, I might struggle to raise any enthusiasm.
(* it's really nice there)
sour CREAM(pie) dip springs to mind.
even become a thing? I am obviously way behind in Stuff Like this.
It doesn't remotely appeal to me, and I am pissing myself laughing imagining the reaction I would get if I tried to introduce this kind of play into my sex life. It just seems so unnecessary to me. Sex shouldn't have to be that hard (that's what she said, etc.)
we're ALL at it
1) a combination of less controversial other things: multiple partner sex, voyeurism, bit of submission maybe
2) Internet Men making it into something hilariously awful, as they do with everything
I mean, goes without saying lots of things have always been a thing, but internet man has to brand them into a Thing thing, bleurgh. I hate internet man!
they happen to cater for this and foot fetish things as well. She posts some of the comments she sees from time to time on facebook. There are some really REALLY strange internet men out there.
them on here
fidel Catstro tells someone they come across badly on the internet
and she says lots of people that phone up want to see their wife being fucked by a black man.
i'm not sure if she has to pretend to be their wife or not, or if they just let her know. i'll ask her next time i see her.
To the max since last January