YOU ARE GOING TO DIE. THIS IS AN INESCAPABLE FACT.
So what do you want to happen? Burn you up? Bury you like treasure? Donate your pulsating organs? Put you on a boat that's on fire?
Big wake or just close friends and family? Would you hire a mime / magician for the wake?
Answer any / none of these questions, just tell me what you want to do and then we'll link your family to this thread when the time comes.