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Have you ever had a massive urge to change job/location/situation? Or have you done it?
should probably do it again really
or the fact I'm not very comfortable being me.
I've been tempted a few times, but only when other things have been rattling me. I'd be terrified of fucking everything off and just having the same problems again. "Wherever you go, there you are" and all that.
I wouldn't let it put you off though because you can find that a new environment can change your perspective on things.
the latter, however it will allow you to maker a new circle of firneds who don't expact you to behave or be like x, y and z, and to a degree you can reinvent yourself (at elast as to others expectatoins of you.)
It is hard, but liberating to move, and you burnt-to-ruin bridges aside, you can always come back!
Had urge to go to london (prior to that I'd moved gla- Manc, but that was because I was telt).
I didn't settle in London but I had a really good life there. I missed my loved ones in scotland and moved back. It was more than an urge, it was like a need.
moved to the first place a spare room was offered me. No money, no job. Worked out great. Watched football and karaoke every week with Foley. What a time it was to be alive.
is a big deal cause i'm at the bottom and never done that '''professional'' well paid thing.
so i've had loads of jobs doing different things and changed location too.
just do it if you want? be a waiter or supermarket worker or be the person who carries kegs in a brewery because, breweries.
unless you're doing something like doctor or lawyer or something that requires a specific learned skill it seems like you could just do whatever you want? and even then...
if i were all of you i would move to the country and work in a farmshop and then one day run the farm shop
I missed a year of Uni and generally fucked things up when I went back so I had the option of going home or making a fresh start. Pretty much on a whim I decided to crack on with Uni but all my friends and acquaintances had moved on. So I moved into a large shared house with randoms, worked out pretty well as I am still good friends with all of them and am engaged to one of them also.
But I'm a complete zombie atm and don't even care what happens, so can't exactly recommend it.
People would say hey find something you want to change to first and do that but sometimes it's just too bad to wait for inspiration.
On more than one occasion. You won't know if you don't go. #noregrets #nevergoback
It's hard and great and depressing and exhilarating