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do you confront them or bitch about them behind their backs?
as I fucking saw it coming.
wouldn't matter if someone else started this thread
I pm theo
you however are a snake in the grass
you seem like the sort of person I wouldn't mind in a non-DiS environment.
same goes for everyone here.
daddy or chips or sommat? who was it?
no it wasnt daddy or chips sorry, hang on, oh lord i'm getting mixed up? or was it?
I really do.
confronting someone every time they annoy you is the act of a psychopath
should've taken it to another site really.
went on a date with some guy (and went home with him even though i didn't even really fancy him cos i'm a twat), the next day he PHONED me (who does that) and i eventually gave him the 'not looking for anything but we can hang out as friends if you want' text (even though i wasn't really bothered about being friends) and now he keeps talking to me on facebook and showed up to a gig i had said i was going to and i think he thinks we're friends now even though i keep ignoring him and he's really quite annoying. how do you stop being friends with someone you accidentally made friends with? he is incapable of decoding the most unsubtle hints known to man
actually he's pretty much the archetype of a DiS boy so maybe he'll read this and my problem will be solved through internet bitching. hi guy!
"we can hang out as friends if you want"
"he is incapable of decoding the most unsubtle hints"
if you don't want anything to do with him you should have said so imho. men are really thick.
bruise his ego somehow
but every time he's tried to arrange to hang out i've either said i was busy or ignored him, when he messaged me saying he might to the gig i ignored him, when he showed up anyway and tagged along with me i ignored him to the extent of being unnecessarily rude (didn't introduce him to my friends or make any effort to chat to him, kept going off to smoke without saying anything and then standing in a different place). now, maybe i'm just unusually adept at picking up social signals, but personally if i was in that position i would be mortified and think the person pure hated me, but he was apparently completely oblivious and kept finding me and i ended up having to walk all the way home with him
it does feel a bit much to now be like 'actually i don't want anything to do with you'
got to be cruel to be kind innit.
will you do it for me japes
I could probably find a semi-relevant gif?
Hey I've had a think and I don't think we should hang out anymore
When he asks why give him the old work/other dates/so busy routine and say you hope he finds someone better suited to him
(well, I've had people tagging along with me and I've basically been a total dick to them though there was no date or anything before that and me saying 'lets be friends').
I don't know why some people seem to be so oblivious to social cues, if someone treated me the way I've treated some random hangers-on then I'd assume they hated me and leave them alone. I don't understand it.
I'm a prick, I know.
and the girl just sent me a text saying that she had a boyfriend now which was a complete lie but what can you do. Try that.
like a soppy twat. I just sent her a text saying we should hang out again. Needed this caveat for my rep on here thanks.
i should have done the same right at the beginning but now he thinks we're just friends (he followed me around all night but didn't try to make any moves or anything) so i feel like that excuse might have expired. probably gonna just continue to ignore/make excuses (i genuinely am really busy tbf), eventually delete on facebook, then awkwardly bump into him again somewhere at some point and just have to deal with it
so the boyfriend line would have been quite implausible at that point
bet he eventually wears you down and you end up married
Its really fucking obvious to guys when a girl isn't interested. The more obvious the lie the more painful and humiliating it'll be.