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Like if I didn't get the most attention or I was sitting doing the less fun activities while the other girl did more fun stuff. Plus my fancying-people hitrate is so low I probably wouldn't fancy the 3rd person.
Also in a LTR I'd be traumatised by the closeup visuals of my love getting off with someone else. With two strangers who were hot it might be alright. (had quite a few offers on okc for these, where I'd be the new person and they were either long term sex buddies or married. One had just got engaged! Hence all my thoughts as I considered doing it:D)
not something i've ever hankered after. being a +1 would be marginally less awkward than part of a couple inviting in a +1, i suppose. but whenever i've considered how such a thing might ever develop (with strangers) i just keep suspecting that i'd freak out about it being a trap.
can see envisage how an impromptu foursome would work out. swapsies between two couples seems like it has much less room for seething resentment. maybe. but, in truth, not something i can see myself going for whilst in an actual relationship. one for carefree young shaggers rather than a way to 'spice things up' methinks.
Who wanted to meet etc and her long term sex buddy lived in South London, and she was from the North. The 'it's a trap' element means I stopped replying after the message 'it's all about the orgasms' and she deleted her profile a few weeks later.
Would have made an interesting story if I made it out alive.
Was a bit awkward tbh. But they knew each other beforehand.
I imagine if it was someone you knew and the other person didn't that it might lead to jealousy.
I've only had one, and they were a couple. It might've led to jealously between them, I was clearly more into one than the other but OH WELL after a couple of days after, i've never seen them again.
you asking if people have felt awkward in a variety of different situations? I almost preferred your old schtick (this is MPBH right?)
in wainbows for some reason. Theo, delete this
Just ignore me, I've made a terrible mistake
visited some neighbours a pretty girl and a butch one......whilst I was there, they started to get involved with each other, they neither encouraged me nor did they make me feel that I should leave.......but I am a true diser at heart, and so, after considering that perhaps they wanted me to get involved, but me not knowing that for certain, maybe they were just exibhitionists in search of a voyeur, I undramatically let myself out of their house.
Even with hindsight I have no idea what was intended, but like I say, I was a typical disser and they were obviously experianced internationals (whips, fruity mags and handcuffs dotted round the room evidenced this)
years later, and that was brilliant
Straight men are terrible kissers, I'll tell you that for nowt
does hiding in a wardrobe watching whilst having a wank count?
is anyone here into full blown s&m?
this guy like two years below me at uni wears a collar all the time which is padlocked from the back and - as far as i know, the knowledge garnered from various tumblr porn blogs etc - this means that he is someone's sub. but who's the dom? i'm really fascinated to hear from someone what it's like living a fetish lifestyle 24/7.
would also like to hear from someone involved in the ageplay / adult baby diaper lover community.
with the most beautiful man and his friend who I didn't fancy cause I thought I'd get another chance with just the astoundingly beautiful guy but then he moved back to Belgium :(
Or just as little interaction as possible. Few pats on the back.
at best it was gonna be the other guy watching which would have been kinda weird
myself + sorta-girlfriend were at a friend's house, and said friend suggested one, but the sorta-girlfriend was clearly not just not into the idea, but pretty revolted by it. she also broke up with me about two weeks later, so top marks to the month of August 2009 for being utterly disappointing in every way.
Probably the best month
that was a TERRIBLE decision
But I'll bite.
I had one with two girls - they were friends I met at a club and came back to our house at Uni. I really liked one, who probably was only so-so on me. But the other one (who was actually a rugby player), was interested in me. So I met the beautiful one outside the kitchen and we are going upstairs, and she asked if her friend could join. It's not possible to say no to that, so I went with it.
The experience was uncomfortable - they were friends and though they were kissing each other they didn't do much else. So it was less of a fully-integrated threesome, and felt more like taking turns at sex. Was interesting but not a fantastic experience. Still, good enough to tell every single fucking person I ever meet (or speak to on internet forums) you can't buy that kind of keyboard kudos.
and we have ourselves a threesome
when i was eighteen one of my then-friends was proper trying to feeling me up after a party while a girl was crying in the corner. just the three of us in a room. grim. i wasn't having any of it.
c'est les autres
both really awkward where nothing much happens. Once at a party, and another after being out all day in a field and everyone was pretty delirious. Don't think I'd bother again! Had a girlfriend who really wanted to have one but anyone I recommended she said no and got a bit upset Id picked them :D
Yeah, aged 18, with my cousin and her girlfriend at the time. Incredible.
Unfortunately, due to obvious reasons, not something I can brag about in real life.
and the rest of you are straight-up fronting
describe the entire experience in graphic detail.
it were alright
and had sex with them and it was pretty fun but a bit weird and just a box ticking exercise really
It started out like a good idea, I was going through an experimenting stage (as you do) and it was a guy friend and one of his flings. Bit of kissing and the such turned into them really getting into each other and me spending the rest of the evening in the bathroom playing games on my phone whilst they finished. Bit awkward when they were done and she walked into the bathroom to wash her hands or something and casually asked if I wanted to go shoe shopping with her the next day.
That was pretty much me - but without the 'kept kicking me away' bit.
Turkey sandwich sounds pretty good though.
but it transpired it was going to be me and another male friend and her. I got penis-fear and blew it out, as it were.
Always had the impression that outside of the porn world that actually it's pretty damaging mentally.
either you're into it or you aren't, and no one should talk anyone into anything which is where issues or problems would arise, if everyone would want to do it and is on board then it's just sex, with more people. It doesn't need to have the weird stigma or anything around it.
"Always had the impression that outside of the porn world that actually it's pretty damaging mentally."
I think I heard DiSquotes explode? Fucking hell, you absolute spanner.
Not sure what I managed to achieve there.
are you expressing dissappointment that no-one is volunteering?
that if no filling volunteers, that you will just have to go together anyway.
Maybe with a bit of butter.
Him and his girlfriend had decided they wanted to give it a whirl so they scouted the pubs for someone and found an attractive to take home that night. They were all pretty drunk and headed back, all was going really well till they decided to go to brown town and next thing he knew she had backed against the wall and wrapped herself the sheets....
ought to be 669, i suppose