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how do I get over it? Help please.
or imply they will but haven't....?
she dusnt deserv u enway! xoxo
(regardless of whether you have actually even been with them or not)
is to meet someone you like more
come on people, we need to think outside the box here!
Im rapidly approaching a 'do or die' moment with someone at work. Oh god Im going to be one of those work relationship wankers. Kill me now.
But didn't want to tell her? Have you said it yet?!
but its awkward. I invited her to watch the punk singer tomorrow but shes BUSY but she did come round and borrow the 1st season of game of thrones but I couldnt let her in because my warhammer is strewn everywhere. Literally the ball is in her court.
that doesnt make any sense
Can see why you want to ease the warhammer in but now she might not know where she stands. She probably didn't just come over for the game of thrones tbh. I say you've got to tell her now!
BTW the Punk Singer is amazing you should go anyways
Ill tell her tomorrow (im off thursday and friday so can hide like a pathetic coward)
If you want to poke my festering wound anymore just go right ahead!
poke THAT wound.
(That's what she said?)
I'm here for you bro. :D
Imagining the person doing something really gross does help a bit. Or something involving a pet peeve.
is it bodger?
I may or may not be trying to hide my identity for obvious reasons.
Also, it's you moousee, I fancy you.
Also, it's you barleysugar, I fancy you.
your way around a gif has finally made me succumb (oo-err).
i've fixated on people for ages before and now i cant believe i even thought they were hot. after a while the person starts reminding you of what a sadact you are for having a 'secret crush' and the negative associations of that begin to cancel the crush out.
I will probably (hopefully) look back on this in a few months and laugh at my stupidity.
Unfortunately, I was happy being in the 'I fancy them secretly but no one knows and they'll never reciprocate so I won't need to worry about anything' phase but then they started hitting on me and now....I'm sort of stuck in a limbo state of 'is anything going to happen or do they just like a good sext?'. Bah!
Plus a good sext is...a good sext.
(please dont use these exact words, say whatever is appropriate for you) and play it by ear.
unless you dont actually want anything to "happen"?
but they're busy a lot so it never really gets arranged.
Would like something to happen so I can at least gauge if I WANT something to really happen - it's hard to tell when 99% of correspondence happens via text/IM etc.
I wouldn't be arsed but they started this and now I just want to know where I stand without spooking them by trying to ask outright.
she just toys with my emotions so.
Cease the attention entirely and see if they message you. Our generation love hiding behind screens and wasting each others time.
I'm a babe, they've been single for about 3 years now. Unless you want to wait for what could be actual years for something to happen, give it up.
shall cease contact, tape oven mitts to my hands and see if they're actually arsed getting in touch with me (probably not). Waaaay.
Tbh, I was thinking this was what I should do anyway, I'm just too stupidly weak to see it through. Plus I keep getting pissed and texting them but I'll quit that too.
that's one of the worst things you can do (no offence morgab)
Just fucking ask them out. If they say no then get on with your life. It's not as if theyre gonna be grossed out either, given how they've been sexting you apparently.
I seriously don't understand what the problem is.
And the person is busy all the time. Bit of a red flag Imo. If someone wants to meet they will make time.
and can't really meet up easily because there's no real neutral territory to do so. I'd just rather they came out and said they're not interested in meeting up, if that's the case.
I can never tell if someone is fudging details to save your feelings or actually being truthful. Annoying.
It's very confusing for you but they look like they are just doing it for attention. I may be wrong, depends how serious it is with the person they are seeing. But if they want to see you, they will make it happen.
Think I'll cease contact, stop being an awful person for encouraging someone who's with someone else and leave them to decide whether they want to stay with their partner or not, but either way they can decide without my involvement.
Yay, DiS solves everything.
which I dunno if I should reveal.
Ah, fuck it. Basically they may or may not be seeing/with someone else - which is why I'm having a bit of a crisis about the whole thing. I don't want to be that person but I wouldn't have said anything to them if they hadn't started it.
Still, I should leave well enough alone because this can only end in disaster unless I walk away really. Walk away and embrace my celibacy.
I was a drunk facebooker. Another thing is kinda knowing they won't contact and not wanting that to happen, so keeping it going yourself. I could write a short instructional pamphlet on the topic. GOOD LUCK BADGER. Fingers crossed they aren't actually a numpty and they message you of their own accord. X
you're one of the good ones. We could bond over our mutual drunken-posting-mishaps. x
i cringe quite a lot at the idea of even sexting someone i AM shagging. imagine sending an unsolicited sext. how do people manage to live
I don't do that.
Become friends with her. Tell her how you feel, and then if she says no, ignore her forever. Friendship with someone you fancy is pointless and a waste of time.
99% of the time, you'll get thrown to the wayside when another blokes comes on the picture. Whats the point in being close to someone who will never have your back? None i tell you.