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How long did your honeymoon phase last?
When it did, how much work did the relationship feel like?
* for question 2 I meant to say when it ended
Not that much work really. I'm too lazy to put a ton of effort into something that's going poorly so will ultimately die alone, but having lived a generally hasssle-free existence.
I'm fine with that.
Just don't do anything to the other person that you wouldn't want them to do to you.
That might mean not cheating or not staying together because you don't want to.
Be excellent to one another
b) Most of the time, no work at all. If you can just be content in each other's presence and not feel like you have to spend every waking moment together, that's the key.
Been together for over 3 years now. Probably lasted about a year or so. After that, some bits of work....but relationships aren't smooth 100% of the time and you can't expect them to be without work.
and i told this to my boyf and he almost wet himself laughing and said he would never describe me as that
so no my relationship does not feel like work as i am respected and liked at work and my boyf is a dick
nor has it ever felt like "work".
It's just been steadily great for 3+ years.
If that ever ends I suppose it'll just mean it was a v long honeymoon or something
well i think i said it when he did a very smelly poo on a small boat
"this is what we are now is it CG?"
and never, occasionally we can both be prone to being a bit twattish but it's in short bursts and we let them blow over and be forgotten, so it's pretty sound.