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when someone asks you "So, what do you think of me?"
might just tell them to stop being such pathetically, egotistical, self-centred wanks instead of "yeah, you're alright, mate".
But I'd probably respond 'You're alright'. If I was asked to elaborate I'd probably say 'Well you're alright but you're a bit of a prick'.
but if it has then you should erase that person from your life
always guys, I should point out. You needy, needy people.
now I think they're pathetically, egotistical, self-centred wanks
so if anyone actually asked this, i would probably think they were a bit of a moron
you're all laying into this person for being needy, but imagine having such shakey self-esteem that you openly implore someone to validate you.
there there, needy person. *strokes needy person tenderly*
told them they needed to just believe in their hair, no matter what.
which indeed i used to be, then i would never ask someone what they thought of me really.
tbh, I've never heard anyone say this, but every single living creature is helpless and imperfect. I'd certainly never get angry about it. I'd just be curious, bemused at the most.
but it was by someone who I manage, so I appreciated that he just wanted some feedback.
I have no idea what I'd say I'd someone I knew socially asked that
Maybe you're just impossible to read? I'm presuming these aren't long-term friends but guys you've dated for a bit? if the former then it's probably more about their fears of other people's views of them and they're trying to get you to tell them what things they're doing wrong around others?
However, if they're dates then, yeah, you've probably got a career as a poker player ahead of you and they simply can't work out if you're interested in them or not. Whether that makes them "pathetically, egotistical, self-centred wanks" or guys who really don't want to be trying to date someone who secretly can't stand them but is too polite to say, is another matter.
and they just randomly in the conversation turn to me and go "So, what do you think of me?"
Also well aware I have a thinly-veiled so not like it's a flirtatious move either and they didn't tell me what they thought of me in return (I didn't fucking ask though).
just finished reading your post - I like how you assumed I was dating these people.
There doesn't seem to be a good reason to ask "so, what do you think of me?" ever, even on a date. But it's especially weird to bring it up during a hangout.
because they are unhinged?
I'm with someone and they're seeing different people every other day.