I'm sorry. I did already say to Fappable I wouldn't do this.
I'm currently almost exclusively just sitting and replying to people who message me, rather than going out looking for profiles. I could try that meeting people in real life lark, but results tend to be very similar and this is an organised way to do it.
The problem is with me. I feel so wary about it all and I don't want to meet anyone. There's no fun in it for me. So when people ask me out I ignore it or cancel like a bad person.
What can I do? Please regale me with tales of fun and adventure to encourage me to be brave about it. Xx