So, just signed back in to OKCupid after about a year of inactivity. I didn't actually get any dates (or even a real conversation) out of it the first time round, but I've had a few beers, and am more optimistic tonight. I generally suck at approaching girls in real life, and I kinda realise that translates a bit to online. I've found a few people who I have good matches with, and want to message them. Now what the bloody hell do I actually say?