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Anything worse than considering someone you like with other people in the recent past?
Eltham is banned from this thread.
Hoping to get some agreement so i feel better
Yes, there are plenty worse things. Like losing somebody you love to disease or tragedy. Poverty, famine and injustice. Non-medical circumcision (man I love the way my mind works.)
Thee are lots of things worse than feeling jealous.
I don't know if i'm maybe just not that jealous a person, but stuff like this doens't really bother me and I don't dwell on any of it (or anything thatv vI cant control, for that matter.) I think you could drive yourself mad with jealousy, and I cannot bear jealous types. Try tobreathe deeply and let it go, mozza. x
what i feel is sort of a mild concern :/ kind of feeling. And as everything on this site, it is not meant literally.
But right now this is the worst thing for me.
well, be an emo and make it a self-fulfilling prophecy when he gets annoyed/ dumps you/ cheats/ whatever, or be a grown up and talk about it, or let it go.
I'm sure I'll forget about it beyond today. Stupid facebook.
Unfriend now. Or if you can't do that then hide him from your news feed and promise yourself that you will never peek at his profile. The latter has really worked for me before.
skelly never forgave me:P
but yeah don't unfriend, people.
i like on FB. And now i can see all his past gfs and it's something pre-facebook i'd never have seen/thought about really and argh. Shouldn't have looked.
thats things that have happened which isn;t now.
this is a bit silly?
which is why sometimes we need to be reminded that we are maybe being a wee bit silly. Non?
Stephen, is that his name?
You're probably just getting confused because I am a sexy girl and her username is sexy_girl.
better looking, better company, better blow jo......better!
and photoshop your face on all of them, then upload a whole folder of you and him tagged in all of them.
nothing can go wrong there.
what's the problem?
I assume girls I'm interested in probably will have had boyfriends/people they've had sex with in the past. As long as it's over now (or would at least be over if we started going out) I don't see why it matters.
Not sure how to apply though.
*runs away from thread in tears*
is sit down with a notebook, get him to recount all his sexual experiences and create a sex dossier.
after you posted this in the thread on texting people - http://drownedinsound.com/community/boards/social/4416100#r7038867
You seem like a bit of a needy bellend.
Just pointing out a bit of needless twattery towards someone who was feeling bad.
I'll be away now, don't want you to turn this into an argument, but thanks anyway
there's something distinctly kik about saying "i'll be off because i don't you to bring me down to your level"...
actually, I probably won't win this one in the long run.
in the other thread she was all finger-snapping I hate it when guys are SO CLINGY.
And then she's going through a guys pictures looking at all his exes and getting a bit needy about it.
Glad we cleared that one up for you little man.
otherwise no, not at all.
Does it make you feel insecure/inferior?
Or do you just hate the fact you're not the only person he's been out with in his life, and he used to like other people?
thanks to disers^^^^^^. It was insecure/worried I guess
Considering someone you like with other people in the present. My girlfriend of three and a half years dumped me two months ago. She's probably with someone else now. I've found that really hard to deal with.
Just be happy for the time you get with people.
It doesn't last forever though dude, keep your chin up.
I'm a fucking idiot, though.
love that song but ffs Brandon write some lyrics that actually are about something please
now, not so much. Im not too sure what changed but im so glad it did. It can eat you up inside and ruin relationships.
Just try to blank out any thoughts that come into your head. Tell yourself you are just being nuts.. over time it gets loads easier.
I recommend you make sure that something properly bad happens in your life, so you're forced to get a grip and stop whining about bollocks.
so many :D
like other guys showing interest and my gf being close friends with other lads, all that shit is fine.
But yeah, thinking of their exes is always a bit of a shitter.
I would've thought you'd have picked up on that when you're racing your cats
I've found that to be an effective way of overcoming this issue.
I 'need to work' on my abs- they aren't good! They couldn't generate anything!
someone I fancy. Like I have a crush on this Christian man and I just know his wife is gonna be a gorgeous American christian, who is all goodness and light and he will love her and be eternally faithful and she will be worth every minute of it
You've come to the right place if so.
and love them for it
but i like them too
so it's ok
I'm worried I might turn into one of those sad old men that are into cuckold fetish.
excel in all areas of life