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Just because you don't fancy them at the start, you might by the end.
Like if they asked you and you were pretty sure they liked you, but then after the date you weren't that fussed?
It would only be unfairly leading them on if you didn't fancy tham and you were pretty sure you never would. If you're open to changing your opinion it's ok. After all, what is a date if not an opportunity to get to know each other better and see if you like each other?
It just seems agreeing to a date feels like you either fancy them or are at least open to the idea.
As with everything I post on here, this is a completely hypothetical situation.
I'd probably go out for a drink with a woman I liked but didn't fancy if she asked me but I'm not sure if that counts.
As most men place a higher emphasis on looks.
probably at least one of these stereotypes is a myth tho
i'd pretty much take anything that's not legally dead atm.
Or am I thinking of untrue?
got bored at the end though
i was already bored wasn't i.
You can take me to anywhere but Zizzi's.
Actually, scrap that - dinner?
can we date now.
We can go on dates in Habbo Hotel.
make sure everything is animal print.
but i tend to agree it is a bit pointless.
and that's a much better thread
but I'm just as likely to stop fancying someone I fancied initially as I am to start fancying someone I didn't, so I might as well, huh. First impressions are worth shit. No uggos though.
I could date someone I didn't think was that sexy but made me laugh and was fun and nice and smart.
I know you're talking to daddyorchips, but I just wanted to say I didn't actually mean to this your post, I was drinking a coffee and put my elbow on the touchpad thing. I'm not saying I disagree, it just violates my policy of only thising when someone posts a snide comment aimed at another diser in the hope of fanning the flames of drama.
...the old, dark days. Boy, I'd like to kick myself!
Where the hostility to DiS virgins comes from
I don't think I would do that though. Seems mean, and not a very productive use of my time.
That sounds like a really bad idea for a date
It is that sort of attitude that will mean you will never feel a girl's lusting gaze as you apply another layer of Troll Slayer orange to an orc's armour.
except mine was nine months of me trying to make up my mind if I was bothered about the relationship or not. I was crap at breaking up with people when I was younger.
if someone fancies you and you don't mind them all that much, you know, it's easy to go along with it. surely you of all people/wet dis virgins know what i'm talking about here?
I think it was more that this girl made it very obvious she was keen on me so I was flattered to the extent that I went along with it for some time. It was a pretty casual relationship - we'd only see each other a couple of times a week so even though it was nine months it wasn't like we were living in each other's pockets.
Cheers though x
Did you end up going on a date?
What a dickhead.
so, dates are alright!
they make me laugh, conversation is interesting.
I was chatting to someone last week who knows you IRL.
all good i hope...