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I've done the bad thing and fallen for a girl who has a boyfriend. If shes stayed in my bed twice and pretty much tries to come over every night, thats a good thing right? Its not a good thing when Im awake all night with a ragin' semi :'(
than you coming over her
Im just going to go for it
Any advice to give for a naive pleb? You seem like a man of the world Fidel...
my best friend fell for a girl with a boyfriend, now they're happily living together with two kids.
BUT THE BOYFRIEND STILL DOESN'T KNOW!!!*
Thanks pal - Ive already picked out a cot so this fills me with hope I havent wasted that couple of hours
1) If you want to actually go out with her, cut that shit out immediately and stop letting her stay over. Tell her that you want to go out with her but that she needs to dump the BF first, and give her space/time necessary to get over it.
2) If not JBHR and then wander off into the sunset, smoking a cigarette and looking cool.
nb 1. The first option will in actual human reality be extremely difficult to do. Good luck...
nb 2. Don't worry about Moousee aka Negative Nancy below. Plenty of people have messy/cheaty ends to one relationship but don't repeat subsequently.
Thanks for giving me options a) & b)
just go for it. she wants it you want it and in the long run it doesnt matter NEWAY
Can men and women just be friends? It's an age old question that your ragin' semi is gagging to respond to.
but it doesnt mean you dont want to bone the hot ones
but no, no girlfriend
Not your fault but not cool at all.
you know you're in there!
I was making tea (coincedentally) and walked in to see her in underwear just strolling over to the bed. Im a shambles
this is worse than that story vamos told about ditching the naked married woman to go play pro evo with his mates
- if she shaved her legs
- if her knickers were anything but plain white and boring
She wants you.
In five years time it'll end up with this: http://drownedinsound.com/community/boards/social/4304396#r6293283
I could live with the painful loneliness
If so, I'd honestly prefer if you were a noble man and did not, but I realise this is somewhat unrealistic and besides, you wouldn't be an awful person if you did. I'd just not trust you instinctively.
Otherwise, just have it out! Declare your raging semi and shit. She sounds like she wants you but is too scared to admit it.
I cant believe Im being such a dweeb about it. Just gonna man up. Girls dont like a pussy, right?
that is obviously interested but won't just go for it.
(actually there's a lot of worse things... but y'know)
My brother threw up all over our landing and bathroom at about 1am last night and left it for my mum to clean up even though she starts her new job today. Fucking hate that cunt.
Today: Gym, cleaning, baking.
just had 2 weeks leave signed off for a wee trip to India in November, huzzah!
just got my exam results. the one i thought i failed (equity), I got a first in. can't quite believe it. lets get drunk.
It's freshers week, stay inside and lock the door.
educate them by taking them inside and locking them in your basement.
WAYHEY WACKY UNI HIJINKS OI OI OI.
the Rock steady crew. Show what you do, make a break, make a move.
I'm still recovering from our housewarming Saturday. I think about one more takeaway pizza should do it.
Also I've finally stopped completely ignoring The National. They're quite good. Who knew?
Get back to inexplicably feeling low about being surrounded by booze and supple teenage flesh.
1. i saw a fully decorated xmas tree in a pub in kent this weekend.
2. why did i watch the day after tomorrow? literally in the top 5 worst films i have seen.
3. there isnt a 3.
3. weddings 2011. done.
i'm going to europe's biggest water slide world today, so super excited
on their individual strengths and weaknesses.
Coincidentally, I'm interviewing people this afternoon. Let's hope a duck/gannet has applied.
you speak the language of equal opportunity and individual strengths, but in the end any duck or gannet will do.
I'm tired, this week looks bleak. Thanks.
do you have today off? i do. something about a public holiday that only exists in Edinburgh? idk, I'm hungover. i've found the girl who lives opposite me megadrunk and confused and locked out of her room late at night twice this weekend, anymore and i'll be on first name terms with the security guards. #hallsgrandad
i dont have a day off tho i gotta tcb
WEEK OFF. woooooooh, etc.
last night i had a dream about shaving my beard off. i think this might be a bit of an issue now. i think maybe i want to get rid of it, but now it's so big, it's quite a decision. i don't want to regret shaving it. but i don't want to look stupid.
what to do. i might take pictures and get you lot to vote in a thread or summit. exciting.
steer the course between looking like you want to be a 12-year-old and looking like you want to be with a 12-year-old.
i can do that thing where i curl it in the corners. won't look like a prick, at all.
i think my face has shrunk under the hair.
Table has been booked.
PILLS EVERYWHERE. THEN FUCKING, A CHERRY. RIGHT THERE.
Every time they visit when I've been working in the morning they complain that I'm extra grumpy and uncommunicative. Every time they say this I suggest they visit when I haven't been working in the morning. Today they are meeting me from work. Still. Should get a meal out of it.
Came in to an email asking me how much I had refunded a customer when they had said they had bought the wrong thing and all I had done was sent them a new one. Fortunately my boss is in EYE-BEEFA til Thursday SO SHE'LL NEVER KNOW
Went to Tower Bridge open house thing on Saturday, then went around Borough market and bought cheese. Sunday went to watch 'Tinker, Taylor, Soldier, Spy' it was really good.
Good weekend although the lack of sleep is catching up with me. (Got home sometime after 4am on Sunday, had to be up at 9.15 for a gym induction. I made it although I was a bit late as I was still too drunk to cycle there.)
Pretty bored with work at the moment. I need something more interesting in my life to distract me. Suggestions on a postcard.
Still in awe of Saturday's performance. How was your Sunday, head-wise? =D
Perhaps going to the gym still drunk is a way to avoid a hangover? As for Saturday, I'm quite impressed that I managed to navigate the three night buses it took me to get home, despite not actually remembering most of it.
and am currently sorting through hundreds of photos.
I haven't slept at all yet.
An odd weekend, worked all day Saturday, played football on Sunday and we got our first ever league win. This was all punctuated by an ex who I haven't seen for five years (she lives in America) attempting to text me SAUCY PICS whilst drunk and failing but then emailing me them the following evening anyway. I'm not really sure what this means.
is this filth monday or something? (not jealous)
WHICH PART OF WHAT SHE HAS DONE MAKES YOU UNSURE AS TO HER INTENSIONS?
Shes coming back for a few days and fancies a bit of hot action. Or shes been dumped / messed about / rejected by someone and needs the attention. Is she coming back soon-ish?
But as I say, she's American, she lives in America, she has no plans to come back to England any time soon, I have no plans to go to America any time soon and I haven't seen her in five years.
Get skype if not, also a tub of I Can't Believe Its Not Butter and a snooker ball.
Not a bloody chance
As the under 9s were part of the guard of honour for the Dragons v Aironi game, although one of them was waving his flag in such a way that obscured my face (he's dropped next game).
in my caramel latte this morning.
On the plus side, 3 weeks til maternity leave.
This is the worst news I've heard all year.
I've been at an architects' seminar on mexico all morning. I'm thoroughly confused but it was very interesting. Apparently 6 to 7 out of 10 cars sold in the U are made in Mexico, as are half the world's Blackberry smart phones. Who knew?
Overall I'm grand. Absolutely skint, but I've got that fuzzy feeling like when you meet someone whose great, then you find out they actually like you too and then you kiss and cuddle and everything and the world is awesome. So yes, I'm pretty :):):):):) right now. woo.
Cuddle is such a nice word.
really brightens my day :|
I applied for a job over christmas in Bury St Edmonds. If I get it, will my life be essentially over? How much does this place suck?
Saw a girl with no underwear on at uni today. No-one else seemed to notice. Good day all being said.
Saw Jodie Marsh.
Finally got some use back into my arm i injured at work,thanks to painfully physio and training.Setting up my own catering company at last,nothing major or minor really other than that,life is good and i found a fiver on the way to doctors this morning,yay free cigarettes.
I had to go to see a private doc this afternoon to try and see why I have a mental dizzy head all the time. Work paid and stuff and said a taxi would pick me up form home and then one would take me home, also paid for.
- doctor made me wait around for ages
- reception staff offered all the obvious suited up office workers a cup of tea, ignored me as I was wearing some awesome 90s casual attire
- doc then has no idea what's up with me without me paying a billion pounds for a neurologist
- I cried
- taxi wouldn't pick me up without a job number
- battery died on phone so couldn't ring up work to find job number
- jumped a tram hoping I wouldn't get caught
- ticket inspectors got on so I had to jump off
- walked 40 minutes home in the drizzle
- checked bank balance at cash machine to see if I had any money, cash machine wouldn't give me my card back
FUCK OFF MONDAY
I'm off for an appointment tomorrow to see if I can donate eggs to people who need them. Then some wee babies will be born THAT ARE HALF ME.
scout sound's like you had a wank day :( fucking tram inspecter's in manchester make the Waffen SS look kind on some day's same with the ticket guard's at piccadilly.
If it's any consellation some nobhead slammed my arm in the door yesterday and then looked at me like it's my fault for not catching the door with a arm in splint.