Yes I said WINKING you hilarious bastard.
I know we have discussed this before, but I really would like a definitive answer on wink etiquette (wetiquette? no.) and whether it is a specifically flirty thing to do or whether it is acceptable as a method of acknowledgement/indicating understanding.
Take this example from last week. I was due to meet with a manager lady and when I went to find her she was on the phone. We made eye contact and I winked at her, before occupying myself (mostly by cringing about the fact I had just winked at someone) until she had finished. Was this acceptable or did I basically just indicate that I was ready to smash her back doors in?
Advice please - although obviously I will have to disregard it as I don't trust anything you freaks say.