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there's something a bit wrong with that, isn't there?
A lot for big nights out and stuff but that's because i'm a socially uncomfortable loser man who obsesses over things other people almost definitely don't even notice.
Things like gigs and stuff I'm always just excited for, big football matches incur a massive sense of dread but that's pessimism for you.
because I had some massive anxiety issues but now i'm totally cool with everything and will just go with the flow.
Never in the longer term build-up, though. That time is mindless optimisim time.
I felt the same as you when I was about to lose my virginity too.
causes a situation to generate a fair bit of anxiety, first dates being a pretty big example of this.
and the other person will hate you?
You just need to chill out and relax more! :D
maybe i need to take up the ganja
I'd still to some herbal tea bullshit.
but i reckon it's a matter of changing what if? to who cares if?
and ended up feeling most unpleasent...I think it was the adrenalin, as soon as the gun went off I felt fine, cos all the adrenalin is then doing something.
I think that this might be the case with other things too.....adrenaline in your body with no action makes you feel not good at all