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Useless evening yesterday, but going for a pub quiz tonight. How are you all?
then off for a week till next exam, looking forward to a rest and maybe a beer or two.
do you want to bone her?
if yes, select option 1
if no, select option 2
Sad fact is, there's no option here that will let you come out of it well or still mates with him, so you should probably let it run it's course. She'll find out sooner or later, and it's better she gets screwed over now when she's young and not "sexually active" than when she's seriously involved with someone.
It sounds like your mate enjoys the companionship of his gf but wants more sex than she wants, and also sounds like he's wanting something "a bit different".
They're effectively incompatible as bf and gf, but if he's fucking men, then maybe they should just be fag and hag and be done with it.
Most f/h relationships I've encountered have been pretty much as you've described your mates as. Compatible male and female in every way except the baby-making.
I'm having a word strangeness moment with 'compatible'. It doesn't look 'right' as a word. Mite jyst bee spelled wron.
It so rarely is. Plus he isn't even really friends with this girl. He just wants to play hide the sausage with her boyfriend, really :'D
a relationship for their own ends.
TBO: there's plenty of cock out there, why bother with one that's attached to an entirely selfish male?
I was smiling at anonymous letter. It works every time.
last night the new girl at work and I exchanged, like, 30 texts in about two hours, and she invited me to drink gin on Saturday. I know she's new to the area and looking for mates because she doesn't know anyone, but maybe that is tantamount to flirting? idk.
30 texts in two hours? Blimey! I don't get 30 texts a week....actually a fortnight!
about what was on TV and stuff... I don't know, I don't know, PRESSURE.
Oh my goodness. You've not even been out alone once yet and already you're like PRESSURE! Stop stressing out over nothing and JBHR!!!
no, serious answer. She obviously likes you other wise she wouldn't text back? Where are you going to drink gin with her on saturday? because you're going right?
I don't know plans for Saturday, she just asked me if I'd be around and I said I would so she said there would be gin involved.
You know the weird thing? Last week I made a profile on okcupid, so I could meet my new year's resolution of stopping complaining about being single by doing something about it. I've had about four messages in a week and haven't replied to any because I'm now being preoccupied by this. D'oh.
keep your options open!
Maybe she wants to invite you over for some gin? ooooh la la.
I'm not TBO's shagger ex-boyfriend.
Gincidents would be good. Here's a message sampler:
ME: The problem with gin is, it always makes me tell the truth, for better or worse. X
HER: It's ok gin ruins my life so any truths you tell I won't be able to remember x
ME: It's a deal x
HER: Excellent, it will be gintastic x
Ooh la la indeed.
Whatever happens, though, don't start athread about it.
I'm designating meowington and PO as my dedicated advisors (you lucky things) and will keep things more low-key from now on.
You've just followed my advice not to post a thread about it. You are no morally bound to accept me as a key adviser and copy me in on any memos.
You're in charge of LADish encouragment and crude jokes.
Make sure when you bring a bottle of gin round you have it in a brown bag so when you go drinking in the park you don’t get stigmatised by the other folk.
Also when you go round there first time, bring a measuring tape to make sure all your furniture and stuff fits in her place. Probably best not to do it in front of her (while she's in the bathroom or something) otherwise she will think you are too organised and lack spontaneity and girls like surprises.
That's okay though, right? She'll just think I'm thrifty.
on the paper ones
Don't want to be sending out any subliminal messages.
It will look like you abhor capitalist monoliths like ARGOS and are slowly bringing them down, pen by tiny pen
Me? Not so much. I'm the female michael_w....not that thats a bad thing.
My friend is using 'planty of fish' just now and has been chatting to a few guys and has now narrowed it down top 3 that she might meet up with. Keep your options open. It might not be acceptable as per the normal rules of dating, but this internet dating thing involves a whole new set of rules (i.e. there are none, just don;'t be mean or lead anybody on too far. Once you've met them, you need to decide really whether you want to take ti further or drop them fomr your list).
HOWEVER- work colleague is not an internet dater. As yet, she is just a work collague though with whom you've been engaging in flirty banter. So chill. Answer your okcupid messages, and take deep breaths about saturday. And don't drink gin! Or if you do, whenever it's your turn to go to the bar just order yourself a tonic water and pretend. ARGH. DATING!!!
new year's resolution to read posts before posting not going so well :'(
What an exciting year this is becoming :)
You're in. Just make sure you give her a big gin tongue kiss by the end of the night.
But still, I was as surprised as you.
1st message already with only half a profile.
I put that I speak poor German, and now I have been sent an essay from some fraulein. Have to get my GCSE notes out of the shredder.
Its probably what Jesus would do in this situation
But Im not sure Jesus would do that
taking today off work. my university have deleted my course and want to put me on an alternative one, so i need to spend today reading about it :'(
with about 40% of another course that I'm not really interested in (Real Estate Management) welded to the side.
the end result is basically the same, as both courses are certified for the field I want to work in, but it removes things like Housing Policy and Transportation and replaces it with such rib ticklers as Real Estate Law and Property Valuation.
the UCAS deadline is Friday.
So, that's just great.
i have absolutely no idea why i'm awake.
I'm only awake because I start work early on Tuesdays. What do you do whiterussian?
I'm in work early because I was dicking around on the internet yesterday so missed the cut off point for next day delivery for some kit. I'm not waiting for an engineer to turn up so I can give him the kit and start stuffing my face with coco pops (got a massive box yesterday for £1.50!)
Might have a few beers.
BAR IS OPEN
It's like Caligula's palace round here, without the pimping out of sisters, the day is young though
It's probably going to be a difficult day at work, so I'm starting off with a sausage sandwich. Mmmmm.
so I had two bowls of cocopops. I would rather have a sausage sandwich though.
Glad the working day is over.
Sandwich of the day: bacon, cream cheese, cos lettuce
it was earl grey tho.
You should probably go and smash their poncey face in
I guess I was dreaming kindaaaa, then I had this intense 1 second nightmare where there was a fuckin scary mental women with her face at my window. Woke up in absolute panic as it was completely 'real'.
Great start to the day, cheers God.
setting up my new laptop this morning though. First in 5 years i feel like im cheating on the old one that was so great to me all these years. The australia flooding is pretty crazy but i guess a sign of things to come in the world, what with it being such a low lying country.
I accidentally cooked something amazing last night. I mean, I'm not a bad cook or anything, and I usually just make up recipes as a go along, but this time I think I've stumbled across a bit of a winner. It was lamb shanks and lamb steaks, slow roasted in a sauce of tomatoes, red peppers, garlic, onion, cinnamon sticks, chilli, nutmeg, ginger and turmeric. I had to add some sugar to sweeten the peppers, but it was so rich and warming and hearty. served with creamy mash and baby leeks and a pleasing bottle of vin rouge. I feel like a post-spinach Popeye today :D *kisses cans*
Yesterday was fucking shit. Today WILL be better.
I had a massive takeaway pizza, so have leftovers for the next three days. Value for money, that.
That's some willpower.
I can usually manage at least half, but I was eating late thanks to leaving work late / phoning my parents, so wasn't that hungry.
Tonight I'm going out to a pub quiz so will only have time for a snack, so maybe two slices? Leaving at least four or five which I probably won't want in one go, so probably two more days.
I'll jazz it up with some curly fries / extra salad, or something. Based on what I paid for it, it should last me the best part of a week.
I'm pretty regular in there, so thought I'd get a bit of a friendly discount from the lady when I was asked for a few extra anchovies, but no, she charged me for my greed.
They beat dominos and pizza hut any day. I like the Carnivale!
If so, huge ^this. Otherwise, what I said.
I'm worried that I still haven't had confirmation of an interview that was due to be 'in the first two weeks of Jan', they said I'd know by 5th :( I've emailed twice and tried to call several times this morning, should I email again?
I just got through on the phone. Dilemma solved, I'll have a date by the end of this week :D
Also, where the fucking HELL is chintzy? She's been on holiday for far too long.
i got 100% in them all and i'm a thick bastard
gud luk on yr pretend exam x
i wrote about the enemy being cunts
Art, English lit and History. ALL VERY SERIOUS SUBJECTS
that has questions on The Smiths and whether 'Bands are posh'? It sounds both a bit mental and a bit useless.
Is it an actual real thing or am I being duped by massive shab bants on tinterwebs again.
Not a bad thing.
It doesn't sound too good as described further up this thread though.
I can see now why our school refused to do General Studies, on the basis that it was a MASSIVE WASTE OF TIME.
people only fail it if they're rubbish at writing a level style essays.
thankfully i am CLASS and didn't have to do any work ever.
Didn't realise there was maths involved
Can't remember what the 'o' stood for. Probably should've attended more exams.
I need an new job. Watched the penultimate episode of season 2 of Mad Men.
does it get any better?
of the first season is fairly brilliant.
It looks incredibly but I can't say I'm totally in love with it.
started about a month ago
but i can't do most of it as the pc i work with is utterly shit and keeps crashing.
Think I'll go for a smoke.