Or, when you came out who did you do it to first?
I was talking to my lady about stuff like this as she studies things related to this at University. I had a friend that came out to me first when i was at high school. i, much later, drunkenly asked him why and he said that he thought I was gay. i kept the secret for a while until he was ready to tell others, but i wondered since if you would chose your friends and then how you would chose your friends...
this is a zero reply thread so, thinking about sean's costs to upkeep this thread, let's add 'favourite biscuit' to the thread discussion.