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should she forgive and forget or bin him?
everyone does it. absolutely everyone.
and would never do so.
TheWza has been with mrs ccb for nearly ten years???? pffffffffffft
MsWza is mrs ccb? pffffffffffft
by all means give out, cos it is a bit shitty, but dump? na. you'd be amazed how many people do this on the sly. not absolutely everyone, though, i suppose. i just like sweeping statements
This can't be a real story. If it is, the guy is a complete dickhead.
I'd be livid if that happened. It's my business and if you don't trust me what's the point anyway. Jeeeeeeeez.
what's the big deal
saying that i once had a peek of an exes and found some flirtatious txts from another fella, he got what was coming
stupid fucking site.
her boyfriend was going through her texts while she was asleep, only to find out that she was planning to dump him. oops.
gave me a double pack of Cold Prey 1 & 2, due to my mild Nordic connections. I watched them over the last couple of days. They were ok but the old villain was pretty unterrifying.
or you've totally cocked up.
I think we are SMASHED - I was just telling whiterussian, didn't want to PM her or she'd have seen it as a come on and been all over me like a cheap suit.
when your wife to be inevitably looks through your PMs.
i really really think you should give them a second try cause it's not until i rewatched them that i realised how much i loved them
I liked the main woman as well, more in the first one - a bit less attractive when she is hypothermiaed and beaten up.
I see that the third one is coming out next month, which is a prequel - could ruin your not knowing much about the killer.
i bought tickets to the premiere weeks ago
so I suppose you would know about it.
No need to thank me.
If she's been behaving in a way which has genuinely and hoenstly aroused his suspicions, then- whilst it doesn't excuse his behaviour- it certainly mitigates it. However, if it's just a trawling expedition, then she should get rid. If you snoop hard enough into your partners affairs you're bound to find something they've said or done whihc you can take issue with.
Every situation is different, and motive is pretty important in determining outcome.
Not a dumpable offence though.
I've never had any interest in looking through a girlfriend's messages. Mind you, the only time I've ever had my suspicions that one was playing away it was because I caught her doing it. There wasn't a great need for further investigation.
because that's the only reason why people snoop. Maybe before she makes rash decisions they should sit down and talk about why he feels the need to snoop in her phone. Insecurities and a lack of actually being honest with your partner is a big reason people feel they have to do things like this.
i've never had any desire to read my boyfriends texts, they're all from his mum or his bearded dick of a mate anyway but still. If you have suspicions about someone cheating MTFU and ask them, dont sneak around reading their texts....
they're going to blurt it all out straight away! come on like.
Its cheating! They're not telling you for a reason so they won't just say "Yes I am cheating" when you ask.
100%, that his texts are from his mum or beardy dick?
Closet snooper! ;-)
it's important that he recognises he invaded her privacy and also violated the trust that should exist in a relationship and he apologises for that.
Secondly he should explain why he did it. If he refuses well then binning him might be in order.
I think the only reason we get pissed off about this is subconsciously thinking "shit, what if I had been doing something".
It doesn't take a lack of trust to check someone's messages, just a quick lapse of it.
I have done it. But then again I didn't trust the person, but it's still not right. Invasion of personal shit, and also it means you have no trust in that person.
I love reading people's texts though. It feels so wrong yet so right.
he'll probably have to find something to complain about in order to justify doing it in the first place. at least, that's how my mind works.
so dump him?
so she should either start deleting messages or dump him, because she's probably looking elsewhere anyway.
And her b/f must suspect something if he's having a snoop. No one does that just to make sure.