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i.e. I haven't gone from being best-friends with somebody to being in love with them, although I've done the reverse, if that makes sense.
the last major meat i went to, you couldnt move for facial hair!
I struggle to gro a beard.....
I think it's because my body focusses on growing MUSCLE AND MAN POWER AND PENIS'.
Obviously I'm joking here
Look what you've reduced us to!
Well, using the flyer not the original image. Great work.
Thanks...? I think. Maybe.
But have been on the other side of it.
It's very awkward once you find out.
I can't be bothered with explanations
Had a best mate who told me he was inlove with me and couldn't be friends with me any more because I didn't feel the same way. I was shocked and then cried like I had just been dumped - but without the romance.
What was worse was that I shared a house with my mate for ages.........apparently I had irresponsibly given him false hope years ago when i had once said @drunkenly when emerging from a pub@ ' I love you man' ......i actually felt quite angry when he told me cos it was sort of done manipulatively.......however one good thing came of it....cos i felt a bit betrayed.....and a bit soiled (cos he mentioned about fantasysing)......it meant that I knew what it might feel like for women whose male freinds fancy them a bit, and I became more sensitive to feelings and consequently ceased to 'knock one off on my own' over women that I knew/were freindly with......unless I was actually their bf/had a romantic relationship with them.......cos i empathised that it would not be nice to realise that men you were freinds with might be doing that........not cos im mr wonderful, you understand, but because it would remind me of how i felt.
I'm in love with your best friend though.
except in terms of being in a relationship.
and i'm heterosexual.
it never, never, never ends well. ever.
it ended well once
however I consider the man I am in love with as my best friend.
And you all thought that my post from yesterday was vom-some.
Just wanted to fuck her, really.
I've been the best friend though.
I didn't think my dungeon had an internet connection ...
That I'm particularly unhappy that manbearpig's post has appeared a Theo post.
They're nice and precise, each one begins and ends
They may win you admirers, but they'll never earn you friends
Fast cars, fast cars
Fast cars, I hate fast cars
I would have been disappointed if you HADN'T doen that.
you get in a heat, you get in a sulk
but you still keep a beating your meat to pulp
It sucks, doubly when they're already in love with someone else, quadruply when that someone else is also a good friend.
until both our heart's got broken
We split but are still mates.
Although my best friend in sixth form apparently was properly secretly in love with me for a while, she told me a few years later.
Also an ex and I have basically turned into Elaine and Jerry, which is sort of getting there I suppose.
It's true, life really does move quicker up North
'oh i hate it when I'm in the club and men are ALWAYS coming on to me! just leave it out, sleezeballs!'
by the way I don't actually own a pair of chinos or boat shoes. Do own a breton striped vest but usually I only allow a peek of that to allude to what's hidden (more stripes). Just to put that to rest.
theres a new guy in who i'm sure they've got in to replace him for the time being who has been married twice and was telling us about how the doctor phoned him and he was worried he'd have an std because he was sleeping with two women at once but then he was relieved because it was only diabetes and the doctor was angry that he'd be relieved
Methinks you're regretting not taking the road that was not taken.
but you didn't ever, at any point, like him at all?
with like there
she doesn’t just lust over Jason Schwartzman photos.
Back when you were '15' on here...
I'm really unsure what this experience would've been like.
I don't think Mirri ever said they had. They used to chat on MSN and vikram said stuff that made Mirri go off him big style + some other stuff. Anyway, I don't think they've ever met.
kept referring to vikram's attic, sounded like the stuff of legend.
It literally takes a minute to load a page of this website.
but doesn't he have a reputation for not doing any work? You wouldn't really expect him to put the effort into that sort of diy.
and I've managed to build myself a sex dunge... uh... snooker room.
"he was the kind of friend that you spend loads of time with but are never sure" he was a male and you were a female. in 100% of cases he wants the clunge.
learn yr trolls
The wonderful girl who's PROBABLY my second-best friend and is definitely my best female friend, well I used to sport ventral butterflies for her big-time. But she wasn't really great mates with me then - we were good friends, but brought together more by circumstance than by desire to spend time in another's company. Now she's been with a top fella for six months, she's as happy as I've known her, and her relationship with me has been at its healthiest. Any romantic feelings were dissipating anyway even before she met her man - she had problems of self-control, shall we say, and it was perversely quite a noteworthy mark of true friendship that we hadn't succumbed, to the extent where I'd even slept in her bed and we'd done nothing - there are three men who've done that with her and they're more or less her best male friends.
To summarise - yes, sort of, but there's a temporal disconnect.
but not as far as 'being in love with them'
probably cos i've known that they're my friend and therefore they would have no interest, so i've squashed the feelings away as much as possible.
he's gay and really annoying.
and fancying people was lame so i didn't say anything. we ended up going to different secondary schools and that was the end of that chapter
I shouldn't have really bothered
just once again
five years of secret unrequited love, then we were briefly together, but it ended badly. I wish I had been able to handle things better and not tarnished our friendship but I was a pathetic needy mess. It's been almost four years now, things were fraught for awhile but I think we are ok now, but I still panic when I see her. I miss her but I know there is no place for me in her life anymore, she seems so much happier than when I knew her, I do wish I could spend a little time with her and catch up because it feels sad to be so estranged from someone you were close to, but I guess it's too awkward which is normal. oh well, life experience I suppose.
you joined the perfect forum to help you in these matters, a cracking first post
Probably thought it was. Its pretty childish really, looking back, but I'm willing to put serious money it happening again (cos I'm very bad at these things).
Why would I want to be in love with someone I share common interests with and doesn't make me cry?
are you sick?