Show kindness and courtesy in the old-fashioned way and people will notice. Use of "please," "thank you" and other display of kind manners will do. Don't interrupt — and chew with your mouth closed (no talking).
2. Tight lips
Don't be an easy tell-all. Save some of the good stuff for later. This allows your date to truly experience the utterly charming you. Of course you don't want to come across as vague or evasive. Avoid spilling a lot of details up front. Save your relationship dramas if you've got 'em and detailed personal life stories for when you care about the person and the feeling is reciprocated.
3. Body language reveals
More than 90 percent of our communication may be communicated nonverbally, that is through body language. Positive body language such as good posture and eye contact, a genuine smile (see tip below), sincere nodding and other friendly gestures will win you more favour than any words. Ditch patronizing touches, signs of nervousness and displays of closed or invasive body language. If you feel like you trust the person, show it. Likewise, if you feel inclined toward the person, it's okay to flirt.
4. Curry flavour
Show your interest if it's genuine. Ask open-end questions. Remember, people generally love to talk about themselves so make sure more than half your conversation time is about them. The more you listen, the more you may endear yourself to someone.
The eyes have it
Keep your gaze on the guy; don't break eye contact until after he has finished speaking. Indeed there is a biological reaction to having a "sticky" gaze. It can spark the same reaction we have when we fall in love: increased heartbeat and boosts in an adrenaline-like substance which flows through the veins. Plus, when you consciously increase your eye contact on him, he'll feel like he has captivated you.
Be slow to smile
Don't smile so easily or frequently. Instead, make it a slow smile. This will not only boost your allure factor, but you'll also be perceived with more credibility and integrity than a constantly grinning person. Look at his face for a bit. Pause. Take it in. Now smile.
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