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Y'know, took part in an affair with someone who is in a relationship?
What happened? Details etc please?
I've never felt so bad in my life. I was drunk but obviously no excuse. Never been interested in doing anything like it again.
Ah, those pre-myspace/facebook days of instantly being able to establish someone's availability
Then it turned out that was a bad idea.
I always wondered if people who do cheat and meat someone new while in one relationship and immediately crossover into a new one are more prone to doing this again.
it was just a terrible relationship. I felt a bit guilty the whole time.
If you started off as the 'other women/man', even if only for a short cross-over period of time, chances are you'll exit the realtionship in similar fashion. People do change, but those inclined to cheat, tend to cheat.
If she could do it to that guy, she can just as easily do it to me.
it's a pretty well-defined line to be crossing when it's gotta be almost always possible to avoid it
We were friends and then decided that maybe we were more than friends- had a drunken snog and he left his girlfriend that week.
I did go through a period of worrying he'd do that same to me, but I think that was more to do with me than him. I think everyone behave differently in each individual relationship. Whouldn't you say?
I'm looking for material.
I was banging my married teacher for a long time.
ew ew ew ew ew ew
But no. No. No no...nothing threesommy appeals to me in any shape or form.
but I was only seeing the guy for a week and he was snotty and smoked a lot of weed so didn't notice I was gone.
my boss is up my backside
it's not as interesting as it sounds.
It's not something I'm proud of and I would never recommend it.
I wouldn't like to divulge any further details on a public forum.
But why don't you sign up with a different username and tell us? "blaaaast", perhaps?
I'd rather not.
with some epic storytelling in it.
Something about two guys responding to an advert or something. And one lad dipping his wick with the wife of a guy while the guy waited in the living room and the other lad hanging around with the guy in the living room. Something like that.
Her best friend told me, everyone seemed to know i was with the girl after a while probably got back to him but thankfully I wasn't involved in the drama.Worst thing was I was hanging around her house the next morning when her mates were there and I did not realize why they were being such cunts.
not good afterwards, loads of thnking, but at the time it was tubular.
You can displace guilt for a looooong time, the ego rub is seductive. But eventually it creeps in...
It's the Theme form the Third Man by the Band. I particularly like listening to it on a boat.
but i can't be arsed.
Stupid bitch apparently fell for me, big time. Christ knows why.
once with someone who had a girlfriend and they broke up
once with someone who had a girlfriend and they didn't break up
and then i slept with the best mate of the guy i was going out with at the time
there's not really a lot more to tell
Had a number of drunken hookups with someone who was involved in a long term relationship. Last time was about two years ago, at which point they were engaged. I believe they still are.
I didn't really feel any guilt about it, mostly because I was filled with self loathing as she was kinda annoying and I didn't really like her very much.
and it was awesome.
for so for me and less for them when their 5 year relationship broke up in what was apparently the loudest argument and recrimination session since Fabio found JT in bed with Mrs Capello.
after being cheated on so many times. yikes.
or the one in here that's just a blank post http://drownedinsound.com/community/boards/social/4212611
my mousing finger is really jumpy today sorry