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if they live about 8 hours away from where you live????
I'm a sex squirrel
2) You're a mental
3) Both of the above
if the relationship is already established and you're going to be away from the other person for a while then yes, that can work, but you can hardly be like "hey fancy a pint later on babes?" when you're that far away, it would require too much planning and effort and would kill it dead before it could even begin
I'm about to enter the third year of a distance relationship and I wouldn't change it for all the sandwiches in M&S Simply Food. And I LOVE sandwiches.
even the Salmon ones?
They've got a Travelodge room with your name on it
and if they say yes, in full knowledge you live so far away, there's a decent chance they'll give you at least a blowie there and then.
I'm such a fucking tard
OH I WAS ONLY
ONE DAY AWAY FROM YOUR HOOOOOOOUSE
yeah this is similar to my last fling except twice as far. unless you're absolutely awesome for each other, not a good sign
fling with spock?
I think you and powerfulmellow will make a fantastic couple
if this is someone who had enough time to properly talk with you and see what you were like on a basic level, then maybe he's just been in enough not-right relationships to know that when someone really resonates with who you are, it's worth the initial issue of distance.
If he's only met you really briefly, he's fucking insane.
also yes we've hardly talked at all.
And okay, that's a bit odd. Maybe wherever he is is dire for female possibilities and he's thinking of ditching his home generally anyway?
With one of my two LDRs we met at uni and courted and it was all beautiful. After that I didn't care where she was living (a variety of English cities + Berlin) because I knew what being with her was like. The other one was rushed into (after a mammoth email correspondence) and didn't fare quite so well
Borderline workable, but if you're stuck in cities on opposite sides of England then probably not a good idea at all really
8 hours is hardcore. i do 2/3 at the moment, and that's Enough.
and urgent sex
after meeting him once (and in letters). We've been together for almost 2 years now and live in the same city. I've have never had it so proverbially good.
I know 8 hours is a lot more than 4 hours, but that kind of time needs at least two days off work/uni to see them.
Just do what you want, with no reservations about the distance. YOU CAN ALWAYS BREAK UP IF IT SUCKS.
i thought this was a reply to something that i said rather than something that bamnan said. soz.
because you'd write back with something crap and ruin it.
this is pretty much out of the blue
we sent a couple of letters like "wow I can't believe you like [indie thing to like eg. stamps] I also like that thing!" "loved the drawing of a woman with a lamp 4 a head, she can get married to this guy with a clock for a head" "that is so true. Max Weber would have a field day" "I like the stamp on your letter. I got this one from the mythical creatures special edition set"
I hadn't even spoken to him on the internet.
Thinking back, he must have been really very desperate at the time. And I must have too.
But that's basically down to jealousy because it is adorable, frankly.
+ if she is clingy its no big deal
+ antisipation hightens the whatever u kinds do bed nowadays
1. Fine if you're both desperate
2. IT DEPENDS....
3. Wishpug is totally gay for Van_gok
ps first time i typed wishpug up it was an accident, but it sounds much cuter than wishpig.
as well as in the taste steaks. heh hehehe.
pugs are much cuter though. also, make better pets, i assume.
no contest with their wild counterparts. wild boar >>>> feral pug monster
but you'd only reply with some gross picture and I'm eating my tea. You're dead smart and funny.
and they'll have sex with you loads when they visit you, knowing that you'll be like 'OH YOU TRAVELLED EIGHT HOURS, THAT MAKES UP FOR NEVER CALLING'
Or you be like 'yeah, i got this thing [bites lip] but it's not working out cos she lives too far away' and it'll make you look like the kind of romantic guy that's prepared to wait every two weeks for lovely sex and probably phones his girlfriend every night and gets off on just the sound of her voice for celibate weeks on end...because she's worth waiting for.
And that'll make loads of girls want to have sex with him (or you, but i don't know if it would the same on guys)
think you have walk the walk as well as talk the talk
Isn't 8 hours travel like the next village away or something? Can hardly blame the guy.
still boring though