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If he's not rich, you're a retard.
if you had, you'd understand perfectly.
bit short of older men around these parts. Cheers.
had enough of those.
I'm swinging the other way :)
enjoy yourself. depends what you both want out of it I guess, but try to treat age as a number rather than a hurdle
i don't think that i mind
(37/2)+7 = 25.5
He's probably a creep.
i really don't think that he's a creep, probably not as much so as me anyway
If neither, then you've gotta wonder why...
I don't know whether I ever knew you
But I know you
I know you never knew me
Not really :)
Why the fuck do girls do this?
Either you're interested or you're not... you're old enough to make your own decisions, aren't you?
'OH MAN HE'S SUCH A CREEP, I AM WELL YOUNGER AND HAVE MY OWN DOUBLE BED AND LAST.FM PROFILE AND NINTENDO DS'
Whatevs. (attention seeker!)
marry me Helene xxx ;)
he was fourteen years older than that?
he was 18
I never really get the age-gap issue once you're into your late teens. My first long-term boyfriend was 16 years older than me and the only problems we ever had were down to the fact that he had kids from a previous relationship and an ex-wife who wanted me dead. THe actual matching was otherwise fine.
There's 14 years between my parents, who have been pretty happily married for 35 years!
And more topically, 9 years between me and my boyfriend.
Go for it- I presume you must like him if you said yes?
Oh, *that*. Such a trifling problem! :D
That was just an external irritation- she was quite quite bonkers.
but i said yes without thinking about it and then i was like WHOA MAN WTF IS GOING ON.
I mean without how that ended, obvs
unprotected sex with butler leads to prince harry ;_;
Gets hazy after all this time tbh
Sounds like a forthcoming episode of Watch Out Wilson*
*Watch Out whiterussian ;-P
Watch out whiterussian, you shameless tomb raiding hussy.
37? More like 47. Make sure you get a photo of him with a copy of a recent newspaper before you meet up.
there's 8 years between my folks and they met in the late 60s. 35+ years of marriage later they're still together.
Fuck manners if it comes to it, and just bail on it as best you can.
whose name i'm not mentioning just in case he googles himself?
i've just agreed to go on a date with someone who's 14 years younger than me.
There is nothing wrong with dating someone older than you. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me and we have a lovely relationship. Everyone frowns when I say that he's 12 years older than me but it's never bothered me and I don't spend all my time with him going "you're nice but ewwwww you're old!!"
But seriously? Saying you did get married and lived happily ever after, then on average he would die 16 years before you which would be a sad and lonely time. That's why it's better to marry someone close to your own age.
You can do that after your first husband dies anyway :D
Then I can go 12 years younger than me
(I don't mean this boyfriend)
I'm a lovely young idiot. Dinner?
so no thanks x
which is white? it's ages since i've played. aah (post-google).
next you'll be telling me that they're allowing proper nouns in Scrabble.
Far better than the standard game.
He had one of those depressing Manc accents you sometimes here, wearing a cap, white-framed Hoxton sunglasses and white, shiny pointed shoes.
But what made him a twat was him going on to his mate about how his girlfriend (wife? Who knows) had asked him what he was going to do with his life because he was almost 40 and he was taking this opportunity to explain how, "the women in your lives always want you to have a purpose. I just want to be a kid, just have fun," and then he went on to say he couldn't be bothered with negotiating over anything and just always paid the price offered. Oh and how Gene Hunt was the greatest character ever invented.
Anyway, he struck me as the sort of guy who should have been going out with a girl 20 years younger than him.
When you tell them that you have made a new friend, they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you, "What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies?" Instead, they demand: "How old is he? How many brothers has he? How much does he weigh? How much does his father make?"
I'm going to cast off the shackles of this job and spread the message of love.
almost made me feel guilty for growing up somehow.
Translation of it. Well spotted!
are these both in reply to me?
Personally I think she's a very attractive young lady with a lovely figure. This may not sound sincere but I assure you it is.
a bloated, sagging man (albeit it with his financial affairs in order) is pretty much all she can get.
he will be too dead to care
I had someone 9 years older than me and even that didn't work too well in the end.
Although it might me a bit different because the male in the relationship was younger and I was only 19.....i feel used and violated :(
What would my mother think if she knew :(
You're not from/live in Edinburgh do you? I'm a 20ish indie boy, but I am really, really, really nice. I'm funny, articulate, I'm even good looking! ("in that heroin way" I got told last night)I'm a bit mental, but in that good way, not that fucked up way, and I like a good laugh, I get pissed a lot n all that jazz, but I also like staying in and watching a nice dvd ^_^
but yeah, if you can't be bothered with any of the typical guys that you usually meet out there, indie poser bastards with rudimentary senses of humour and all that lark, i'll take you on a date n show you what's what, and even if it's not meant to be, you can be assured that you will always have a lovley friend when it comes to me :)
You're not fat, are you?
I imagine that'd be a bit of a stalkery thing to say.
20ish = 31.
a bit mental, but in a good way = will steal/eat all your belongings and molest any pets you may have.
good looking in that heroin way = likes to dress as wonder woman.
3x really for being nice = oversold, and probably some form of sociopath.
Oh yeah, SAFETY WINK ;)
So, ken..If yer intae it..geez a bell.
or a complete bastard waiting to draw complication and strife into your life for his own amusement.
Either way its a 'DANGER WILL ROBINSON!' moment.
should have said he was a prick and told whiterussian to go fuck herself.
Try not to think about the fact that he had pubes before you had finernails.
a) good looking
b) looks like he takes care of himself
d) not a twat
Then that's a good start. Age isn't a great concern really.
cos she looked good from far off. Turned out she wasn't but it was too late by then.
I told almost everyone I met in first year that I was older than I was for some reason. I shouldn't have done with her cos it spurred her on and she started getting her flirt on, and then told me she was 28. Anyway I said "I'm going to the bog" and never returned. Then a couple of days later she walked past me in the street with A PRAM, giving me an evil stare. AGH!
i think i'm chickening out and looking for a way to cancel it without being a complete bitch
instead be a complete bitch during the date.
He'll most likely tell you to get fucked and leave and you get the very same outcome, but the fact that he chose to bail out will assuage your feelings of guilt.
so it's either cancel now and be *a bit of* a bitch or go through with it and be a complete bitch later on
btw, I'm 30, call me!
he'll either freak out (cos he's going out with a young babe to avoid this very thing), or offer to help (cos he is a paedophile)
yeah we all thought it too
but yeah, you should just what acolieaht... says down there below this. He's a big boy, he'll survive.
I like that :)
it was me being lazy and not checking your name.
there, imbedded in the ol noggin for all eternity.
I mean drapekress
which is just yet another reason why it would be a horrible idea to go on a date with him, i can't be the man in the relationship
he'll buy you drinks and he'll probably know what he's doing in the sack if you want to let it get that far
what more do you want from a Tuesday night?
there's your 'excuse' then - tell him that
say you're away the weekend.... the whole thing will fizzle out painlessly.
Get in the habit of telling the truth - it'll work out in the long run
'if only i could get drunk and go home with you it would be ok, but i have work the next morning so it's only a "go for an extremely awkward drink" scenario... so I don't fancy it, sorry. But we should definitely do a dirty weekend sometime'
anyway, it's cancelled now.
'you've been very courteous, and not a little alluring. sadly, I just can't do it. this has no relation to how I feel about your personality, so please don't take any offence. it was nice to make your e-acquaintance!'
maybe Crystal or Shaznay?
that costs extra, love.