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if a boy spend he night in your room, but nothing happens are people still allowed to give you shit?
fuck 'em, who cares. yr at uni, people are gonna be spending the night in other peoples rooms innit.
you're young and foot loose.....it happens all the time at uni...
unless the guy was like your best friends boyfriend or something i can't see there being a problem.
he's on the rugby team. people talk. it's a very small uni. i already have an undesirable nickame.
yeah it does
That means he's a bit of a 'lad'.......he probably left your room, high fived his mates and stuff then people make stuff up....i don't mean that in a harsh way at all, it's just probably the way he acted.
When people say something about it try not to give a dismissive attitude, but instead simply tell them exactly what you were doing and it's silly they thought otherwise.
From what i can tell it looks like you're having a bit of trouble at uni right? you have a nickname which you don't like. The best thing to do here is just take it in your stride, don't let it look like it bothers you, but at the same time don't stay quite. Assert the best parts of your character into your social group which i'm sure wont be too hard and then they will probably respect you more.
I was hanging out with a big rugby guy over the weekend, he started getting teary about his ex-girlfriend and spent an hour trying to convince me Elton John was brilliant.
'he's on the rugby team' and coupling that with the fact she said people were talking about it and saying bad things suggests he could have been a major contributing factor the the information which is now being said.
so i don't think he's particularly laddish.
it's my flatmates that have been taking the piss all day. i'm just a bit worried because one of his friend saw us going off to my room and he's a massive gossip-mongerer.
if it's guys giving you shit, they're probably just jealous
why did nothing happen?
maybe it's time to 'out' him?
Just put your name down on the waiting list.