Two weeks ago:
One of my flatmates was really drunk and we had people around for a wee party, he kept making advances as me and being extremely crude, saying things like ''im going to shag the life out of you'' and commenting on my arse loads.. i went to bed eventually as i couldnt hack him anymore, 30 minutes later he came into my bedroom. I literally had to push him and hold down my quilt to prevent him from getting into my bed meanwhile shouting ''NO!! get out ****! ill see you in the morning'' i finally got rid of him.
as if that was bad enough, last week:
i was off work and he came into my room sober whilst i was running a virus thing on my computer, he looked awkward and i asked him what did he want ''do you fancy a shag'' he said. I was so shocked and just kind of laughed and said NO! ''just thought id ask, are you sure like?'' i explained no, that i was definately not up for it. He seemed to be shocked by this.
I had to sit there later that night eating pizza with him and my other housemate pretending nothing had happened. Its made me very very uncomfortable in my own home and im dreading him being drunk again.
anyone ever had this problem? should i say to him the lack of respect has really annoyed me? i only have to live there for another month then im out of there, but its not nice waking up a noise thinking he is coming into my room at night.
freaked out female, belfast, age 26