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surely this always ends in disaster? surely you should never really do or say anything about it, right?
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i like her and she likes me. problem is we ain't together. go figure.
or is that just me?
but the disaster is like a big explosion that you need to be able to run as far away from as possible. If you have a million mutual friends and see him/her all over the place that bomb will keep going off in your face.
You'll constantly be worrying about them getting together with someone else IN FRONT OF YOU; you'll get irrationally upset & angry at them; and then when you do sex them (usually drunk) it'll probably be quite rubbish cos they are your friend and you can't find them that hot...cos if you did, it would have been obvious from the start. I think. And when they're interested, you'll probably freak. When they're not interested afterwards, you'll probably freak.
But mentally you'll be like 'But we get along so well!' and trying to make it work, and it doesn't really cos if it did, you wouldn't be in the situation in the first place of trying to work out why it doesn't work.
Believe me, the thing about getting together with an actual friend is the distinct lack of romance in the situation.
This is not at all based on experience.
do you think they have feelings for you? it's not unheard of for two long-term friends to get together.
no idea now though
what've you got to lose? friends are rubbish anyway...
not this one
like, i don't find him HOTT. can't really stop thinking about him though and it makes me smile etc. in my dream last night i was sat next to him and he put his arm around me and it was like the highlight of forever. i'm just finding it hard to tell if it's just that i really really love him in a friend way or if it's something else, you know
RUN AWAY AS QUICKLY AND AS FAR AS POSSIBLE.
I have made this mistake before with disastrous consequences. It sounds to me like he's a better friend than anything else and you'll really really regret it if and when things go wrong.
but it was obvious we fancied each other from almost the beginning, but life had been an obstacle until the time we finnaly got together. we were very happy for three years.
i mean i dont know u, but i'd say mostly everyone is capable of finding someone.
cos like i said, i dont know you. sorry if that sounds harsh, but i cant really say any more than i just did. i'm sure if you meet people and act naturally then people will like you. you look nice enough to me.
he's a quim