Seriously, ive just got back and although it's really nice people are making an effort to welcome me back, i'm really not up for going out for a 'surprise' dinner tonight. Basically i was just told and I don't know who the people are yet, but am told they are local friends (not amazing friends, just people i've met over the course of living here). I really just want to have some time to myself after being in India and they don't realise it's quite hard to adjust. What should i do? They keep ringing me and i have told them i just want some time to breathe after this intense experience but they won't listen. Don't get me wrong i do appreciate it, but it's just not what i want right now.