Ive been told now by 4 people in 3 days that i should give and take more with regards to my relationship and my friends.

i shunned them for over a year and didnt make much effort when i was asked to go anywhere or in my BF's case do ANYTHING with his family.

I have had issues.

any tips on trying to get my life back on track?

Im seriously only realising now how much this has been affecting my life. I feel like someone wiped the window of life to make me see through it, i think i needed people to brutally honest with me for me to see sense.

Lifes never simple is it, not in my case anyway.