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yet never follow up on it - is it right to get pissed off? or will you just inevitably look like a girl?
they live in the same town
empty promises, plus makes me think that they don't fancy me. If it's just a normal friend i wouldn't think anything of it though, everyone has busy lives
When I was on the evil weed I became addicted and stayed in the house for a year straight, preferring the company of DVD's and marijuana to real people. Didn't see anyone really. Bad times.
I have a few friends who do this, who say they'll be out at (x) time and never turn up. Dude/dudette might be going through some personal stuff, maybe depression or something.
other people. and then tell you about their night out with other people?
I've thought about it a lot because it's the closest you can come to been dumped without actually being in a relationship. I find that it's usually because they want to 'move on.' It's no way to go about it, especially if they keep saying they'll be out and about. They're trying to force a change.
My advice would be to stick with the pals you've got and see if this guy/girl calls you up. If they don't, it cost you nothing to find out they're a bit twattish. If they do, then either way you're the winner. Worst thing you could do is keep calling them - they'll feel pressured and will definitely not want to know then (I'm not saying you're a stalker or something!).
If it continually happens they're lying to you, which is never nice. Why tell someone you'll do something, when you're blatantly not going to bother?