people often say how sad it would be to never experience love, but what about heartbreak?
i've been hurt before by boys and been upset, upset alot in fact, i've not eaten and cried for days and felt i havent known what to do with myself and tortured myself by induldging my unhappiness with beautifully sad songs (i've also done this with a couple of plutonic friendships!) but i've never been in love before now and i've obviously considered the fact my heart could be broken and im sure the pain would be immeasurable, but is it also a kind of, rites of passage type experience? would i, in some twisted way be missing out if i never had my heart broken?
how much beautiful art has been created out of the emotional pain and grief of the break of of a relationship? how many geniuses have done their best work when in a state of emotional torment?
i kind of dont want to not experience anything and being heartbroken is a pretty massive and often character defining(to an extent) thing.
would it be sort of sad to never feel heartbreak?