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This is getting beyond a joke now.
Uglies need love as well.
follow me i was seans 1000th follower
But I'm fugly so it doesn't occur. I can't seem to get into the mindset required to chat laydeez up.
even when a girl does come up to me, I find a way of messing it up, or somehow appearing disinterested. I am sometimes interested, just shy that's all :(
I need to be more enthusiastic and lively I reckon.
and your both the timid types. may have happened many times over now don't you think? generally speaking, i'm the same way but at parties and stuff lately i've just been acting like i don't care and it seems to work well enough at meeting new guys & whatnot. :)
5 months and counting
i do want to and i have had no offers, so i'm either a pretty shit person or ugly
You'll meet someone nice for sure. :)
'blonde dm wearing 18yr old seeks boy. must have GSOH and like hardcore and hunny nut loops'
Are those all mandatory things? I know Hardcore fans who are funny. I'm not sure about the cereal though.
they must also like a bit of shoegaze and post rock.
and preferably have dark hair and be around 6ft
without the cereal I have all those checked, dinner?
as long as they made me laugh and liked a few of the same bands as me id be happy.
please find me someone.
I can try???
with a suitable paramore though?
we should probably plan this a bit better.
lets get thinking
do's and don'ts.
- smaller than 5'8''
- blonde hair
- appreciation of greenday or U2
- cat hater
it just wouldnt work between us
that its not going to work out between you and any of these boys currently trying to groom you
you're really freaking me out now
lots of people love cats and MTB and stuff
I've never cared what color hair someone has.
And when did abandon reply stop working?
OK last time: [clears throat]
I passed all the do's and don'ts on athene's list which is quite a pleasant suprise.
It feels like doing well on an IQ test when really you're a bit of an idiot. You know it's meaningless but it still feels like an achievement.
beyond a few minutes of conversation,theres little to no impact cos of this
well,going to gigs i spose
music pretty defines where i go and how i dress and all kinds of stuff
it just matters
if music is your everything, then its hard but it just seems to matter, i'm bad and i just think the music you listen ot kind of defines what kind of person you are, people may want to disagree but thats me.
when you like a good dollop of droney ambient bliss.
a fair amount of my energy is poured into music,and it in no way reflects the kind of person i am
if you want to define yourself by the bands you like,fine,but not everyone does
BLAH BLAH BLARGH
i might not have explain it that well.
2 out of 3 though, not bad eh?
minus the bear are my most played ever. <3?
its getting to be a problem
All the rest is there :)
we really are meant to be :)
athene,go up to a boy you like,say hi and be touchy
he shag within 24 hours if you play it right from there
I'm off to rebuild the thread.
at least, I hope it's not.
that's a long time
do you really wanna get some that bad?
Cos you know there are millions of girls out there. One will like you...
I'm quite picky
I'm not a slut (although I could easily go that way I reckon)
I'm shy and socially awkward
I'm a little stange and don't read/display signs very well
the last one is actually 2 seperate issues.
at some point we will go to some clubs and things like that.
I'll be the best wingman ever.
The first couple of months atfer having it on tap for, well, years is a bit horrible.
But yeah used to it now. boo fucking hoo, right?
and 3 girls who have invited me back after clubs
and still got nothing.
some hideous 'under clothes' disfigurement or growth?
All went with the not on the first night line. PAH! Why take me home then?
Ever played gears of war 2? the tickers? that judder then explode..thats how my balls felt the next day.
Graphic description overload.
are indeed soooooo confusing!
and yet still nothing. they said they dont want to be sluts.
You could be ho_fo
then it sounds like he's been getting some. Too much perhaps?
i mean, i can see how people would like to be reassured sometimes that they're not hideously unattractive, physically or as a person, but it depresses me how so many people seem to have no other major concern in life besides when they are next going to get laid. i'm not really moralising as such as i pretty much used to be the same (except a lot of the time i wasn't confident enough to pull it off, so to speak, and if you're looking for advice this is the key, just fake some confidence, it can be done) but to be quite frank you do have better or more important things to focus on and worry about. do something interesting rather than sitting around moping and feeling miserable about how no one will sleep with you. or at least just have a wank and get it overwith.
There is a difference.
cause if not, well then, it just doesn't apply to you
i'm pretty sure you can have acceptance 'as a person' without all the sex
some of us would like that to be two seperate things. although at the moment i'm not crazy about the idea of any of that at all
I wanted to reply anyway.
the problem is that since I've started caring less about girls and stuff, I've had even less female interest. I can't strike that balance between actually caring, but not caring too much about it.
you say that you've been caring less but then say it's problematic because you get less attention from 'females'. if you really cared less about it then that wouldn't be problematic. see what i'm getting at? i'm just sick of people thinking/saying that they can never be happy unless they find someone to sleep with on a regular basis, without even fully considering their options
well... not as much as I used to be. I just need a shag, ok? There are reasons, guys have needs you know :'(
why mop? much better be doing something constructive. first hand experience.
and good luck with that. but some people don't, and in a lot of cases they just feel that they should want it because they don't want to be freaks. or something. but yeah, if you can find that then good for you, really, i'm just saying, it's not necessarily the be all end all for everyone all of the time
Sorry about last night. I never believed a word <3
you used to be cool, man.
more a general thing you see
How long since, you bastard?
*beaver pun here*
Hey, I've got a few years on you and I've never had a proper girlfriend. Been with a few girls, but no relationship followed. So, if it's any consolation, you aren't the only one around here in that situation.
Perm only. You gotta be in it for the longhaul.
it's extremely unbecoming
You won't like it when things get messy.
THIS is depressing.
Are you a prostitute?
why is it depressing? Will people stop saying it's depressing?
The only reason I'm so desperate is because I've NEVER had any, once since October is loads.
i like it
before that it was last weekend with someone else.
but before august i went about 4 months? i'm sure i had period of about 9 months to at some point, happens to the best of us. my advice is to stop caring, then you'll start getting some out of nowhere.
I'M HAVING SEX RIGHT NOW!!! WAHEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls don't like it. Don't do it. You need to think to yourself what is the worst that could happen then get drunk enough to go up to them.
...if shyness was a choice. Only it isn't. And girls are evil anyway.
The whole point in the getting drunk enough is to release your inhibitions. Grow some balls and talk to a girl.
Girls don't like wet boys!
been about 15 mins for me
it's got to the point now where i almost find it REALLY FUNNY cos i have a shit load of female friends, it's not like i can't talk to women, it's just i always make friends with them, then realise i like them, then tell them and they're like 'aaah but you're too good a friend'
and to that i'm always thinking BULLSHIT stop fucking around with guys who are blatently dickheads and then complaining about it and be with a guy who is gonna be nice to you.
as you can tell i've thought that through plenty of times.
simple as that
it was that simple
the hard thing is being the right sort of bastard... the sexy bastard rather than the chop his balls off bastard
but i think that only when you stop caring will your present wishes be fulfilled, cause life's nice like that.
It's definitely not a case of being a bastard. The problem is guys act SO nice to please the ladies that they come across as being subserviant eunuchs. YOU HAVE A COCK AND BALLS, DON'T BE ASHAMED OF IT
Just think about yourself a little more and it will happen naturally.
but no one should go to a "massage parlour" for their first time, surely?
But no one should go to a "massage parlour" for their first time, surely?
it would do your spirit no good to do that, cos then your sensuality and passion would be associated with commerce/money
Plus, half the thrill of your first time is thinking "OH MY GOD, I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS GIRL ACTUALLY WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH ME! BRILLIANT!" It's a fantastic esteem booster.
I can't imagine thinking "OH MY GOD, I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS HOOKER WANTS TO TAKE MY MONEY!" would be half as thrilling.
Thanks for the vote of confidence in my pulling ability kik! And I am never sloppy.
But yeah, totally each to their own, I guess.
Still, nothing a pair of massive fake tits jiggling round your midriff can't erase the memory of, yeah?
i assume it's an interesting story. regardless of if it has any sex in or not.
As arrogant as it sounds, I'm fine with my own company. Like almost blissfully so. Any girls that I happen to make in the process of waltzing through life are just nice little bonuses.
I do feel for you mate but I reckon it's a poor do when your mental welfare depends on others - especially girls.
until you said 'especially girls' - why is that? Surely feeling the need to be verified by others is pretty sad, regardless of whether it's s sexually motivated feeling...
other than that - spot on
5 months? that's nothing.
Come back to me when you can count it in years
talk to girls
does anyone know what a good treatment for mace-in-the-eye is?
oh yes it is
Look at all the whining little bitches on here.
I'm 19, and yet to do the deed, but am with a great girl who has had to resist pressure from a really sleazy boyfriend in the past, so she would basically have to seduce me herself for me to feel comfortable with it.
there is someone in particular that i like and i am not having a sex with them. that's the only time i get annoyed....the rest of time it doesn't phase me.