Bizarre question I know but a (female) friend of mine recently made a joke about me coming across as asexual and it's struck me that she might have a valid point - I'm pretty sure it's extremely rare I send any kind of "signals" to women whatsoever and think I'm pretty clueless on how to do so. In fact I suspect my general problem with relationships is not that women I like rule out the idea of going out with me so much as the possibility never strikes them in the first place...

I'm not really sure what I'm asking here, and am convinced I'll regret this the second I press the "post it" button but how the hell do you not appear asexual and come across as healthily interested in women without crossing the line into coming across like a lecherous sex pest?

PS anyone who wishes to reply "man the fuck up" please note that's precisely what I'm trying to do. I'm not just not sure how to go about it.