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ahh, my ex just sent me a lovely christmas message - THERES HOPE FOR HUMANKIND YET.
which overlaps with my psycho ex boyfriend stalker.
Should I drop the new friend? ;-)
Honestly, there's only one I speak to every now and then and we are so different now we have nix in common.
Good for you.
Theres no need to talk. The one before that, we had a similar friendship group for 2 years and still didn't manage to exchange words...
one i never see but occassionally call/email, one who i dont see very often and one i'm in a band with
and i met up with her last week for coffee and it was the first time i had spoken/seen her since.
And i must say it was really nice and there was no real awkwardness and we arranged to meet up again over the festive period.
In saying that we didn't end badly, i didn't want it to end but it had run its course.
I'm friends with all but one of my ex's she was evil though. EVIL!
It's her mother who doesn't like me. Liverpool fan you see, she didn't like me calling their fans thieving shithouses.
we said we'd stay friends. Met up a couple of times since. She said she'd be in touch, but hasn't. Is it ok for me to send her a "Happy Christmas" like message or should I just leave it?
and nor do I really want to.
bit mental, but nice.
She's not really mental, I said that because of HURT.
rather just going straight to shorts
stop being a needy feck.
has just tried to connect on linkedin, I'm ignoring it
Was hoping you could put a recommendation on my profile"
and 'small dicks'
usually it's totally awesome - we speak all the time and the rare time we get to spend together IRL (he lives in NI) is so so great
BUT sometimes it's really difficult. like when he treats me like one of the lads and is a bit pervy about female celebrities and it feels like he's taunting me, like, you will never be this pretty. blegh. it's totally irrational and I should probably just get over myself about it, but last time I overcame my jealousy issues he dumped me soon afterwards because he still had feelings for his ex, the person I'd been jealous of :(
Doesn't really seem to be working out that way unfortunately.
no real reason to keep it cool
and is dependent on circumstance, obviously, still kind of friends with one, 3 or 4 there is no animosity from either side and we catch up sometimes and wish each other well, but have gone our own ways, one that hates me, but I'm sure is over it now despite probably just thinking I'm a dick, and one who I actually actively avoid and very much regret - although still would wish them no ill will.
But generally no further contact tbh.
Vague facebook friends, no conversations etc though. Bumping into them somewhere in public is sometimes a frightening and awkward experience. Perhaps it's all sort of me being an overly aloof dickhead though. Likely.