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when you were there?
probably mainly for the men here.
I don't know; what?
She probably did.
(I notice you use the word 'hit' rather than 'punch' - are you sure it was deliberate?)
as you failed in preventing it I'd say the only reasonable thing to do would be to ask an internet community to decide your next move
basically waht I'm saying is that this is presumably a specific incident which requires instant judgement on a bunch of variables rather than a principled 'It is always wrong to ...' etc.
punched her, because she pushed him off her when he was being an obnoxious cunt and pushing into her.
basically i just felt bad for not stopping it... wanted internet people to tell me their opinion
It could be time for another 'Gig Cunts MUST Die!' thread.
The time to do him would have been at the gig, you can get away with stuff in the pit that would land you with a custodial sentence anywhere else.
or something, but i wish i had just karate kicked him or something awesome like that
If he was 14, nothing you can do without his "bigger brother" or lawyer getting involved. Kids have no respect in gigs!
...the youth of today *tut*
im a lanky streak of piss anyway, but he was a lot smaller than me, but i stopped myself because i thought he was a kid.
he was being a twat anyway, he kept on getting on the stage and generally attention seeking, and was pushing into people who were getting pissed off. his mate also kicked me in the leg, ran across the room then called me over to try and fight him. it was ridiculous, i thought they were 14 and had one too many drinks after getting hold of alcohol and were over excited about being in london for the first time, but it turned out they were just massive cunts, and were like it all evening.
i wish i had done something more now, because as much as my girlfriend said she wouldnt expect me to like fight for her, i just wish i had punched him or something.
my retaliation would have been a sneaky accidentally-on-purpose while-dancing-exuberantly elbow to nose interface causing massive bleeding if possible, followed by an over sincere 'oh my god are you OK' and an insistence that security take him to the St Johns Ambulance to get it looked at with the suggestion that his mate should go with him to make sure he's alright
but yeah, the moment seems to have passed so chalk it down to experience I guess
...more one of retaliation.
You had him by the throat & you made your point.
Anything more serious could/should have been handled by security.
No honour lost.
If you'd gone beserker, it wouldn't have achieved much. Two wrongs etc...
im glad you feel i did ok :)
Don't let anyone tell you different. :-)
Or try, anyway. My hand-eye coordination is really bad. What's this all about, Jack?
Hopefully, nothing stupid.
That would be stupid.
you would want to hospitalise them
the last time i remember acting violently out of aggression was in primary school where we were playing touch and i pushed someone off base and they got tagged and then they punched me in the nose making it bleed, i put my foot behind their feet and pushed them backwards so they fell over and then i ran off crying. So maybe i'd do that.
I'd insist that he brought before me a woman with whom he was on close personal terms. Then I'd hit her for no good reason and balance would be restored in the universe.
That's some good chakra, right?
i would be SO ANGRY
Obviously, you'd get 15 years for it, but right up until the moment the cops showed up you would be a BADASS.
stand back while my girlfriend beat the shit out of him
thing is weirding me out.
Why can they never leave anything alone? If it's not broken, why fix it?
They're worse than WOMEN.
my girlfriends would jump in well before i had time to react and would probably do a better job of kicking his ass. if she didnt i would do my best to shatter his jaw.
i shall be burgering it right up in here:
I got punched in the face, my friend then attacked the person who hit me, the police turned up at the wrong moment and she got arrested, I felt like a bit of a failure
and then he grabbed me by the neck and punched me in the face, but then he left holding his throat
Seriously. Regardless of prowess or stature.
You may say 'it's easier said then done''....but I've defended my mates in any rough n tumble situation.
i'm thin and weak but you forget how much it hurts when someone of any size comes at you and smacks you one
I got chucked out my mates SU for strangling someone who started on him the other week
then I'd rip his cock off and fuck him with it.
But if she was my girlfriend and acting like a dick and some strange guy punch her, then I'd rip his cock off and fuck him with it. Only I discipline my woman.
continue watching the music
i'd go apeshit if some cunt did that to any of my friends - be it boyfriend or girlfriend - I'm only 5 foot one and a girl but still, I wouldn't be able to stop meself. If some guy hit a girl in the face in front of me i'd probably do my best to at least push the twat over - and then stamp on his head...HARD.
i'm good at squaring up if someone makes me do so. so i'd probably do that.
if i ever get in a proper proper fight, i always just kick em in the balls cos i'm a skinny little lad - but i have shoes with strong toes. kick em in the balls. while they're squirming lead lady off into taxi drive off and adore
and my bf sad 'yeah'. so this guy tried ripping my suit and i tried to deck him but we got in a scuffle and my friend didnt help.
at first of course
the i would open a can of whoop-ass on the guy
Would apologise to the man, offer to buy him another drink, get in an argument with the girl, start fancying her flatmate and then start a thread about it.
Kill Him Already Kill Him.
PROVE YOU'RE STRENGTH MAN!!
ask him to apologise, and make him aware that his actions impact on other people so he should probably think long and hard about how he behaves. Then stab him in the crotch.
to have got hold of his wrist and then proceed to pull one of his fingers out of it's socket. This shouldn't really attract too much attention from afar and would hurt the little man a great deal I'm sure.
and go and stand somewhere else. all these people replying with stuff like 'i'd rip his head off' are almost certainly bullshitting. fighting are gay.
that they'd tear him a new one etc would/could
I'm made of iron...and braun
do you headbutt much? I imagine you to headbutt.
you can't really control the power of your head
except it was less of a headbutt and more of an alan shearer style football header.
shoulda done the shitty arm in the air celebration afterwards.
and a real man or something. i hear girls love men who assault other people on their behalf.
but after the incident has happened, going over and smacking them a bastard isn't really going to achieve much is it?
probably would have made me feel a bit better though, and less powerless
You don't have to justify yourself....
and you might end up killing someone with your raw strength and power. like nick cage in con air. best to just get out of the way.
*i don't think it was actually a brawl in con air, but he killed someone when he was protecting his gf didn't he?
and in reality i might even react the same way (even though me trying to fight someone would look ridiculous), but i think my first instinct would be to make sure my girlfriend was okay.
Fighting is a visceral thing. It stems back to the nomads. And I pity the girl whose boyfriend doesn't defend her honour.
You'd probably just throw up into your little woolen cardigan.
Like Bubba Ray Dudley and Eric Morecambe
what year is it? why not go the whole hog and challenge the guy to a duel?
Eitherway...supporting your girlfriend isn't 'old fashioned'. It's timeless. And the kind of sickening, gutless baby-bird who withers into the soil after his girlfriend has been assaulted is a worthless man. You should be ashamed of yourself.
This is taking the faye, indie stereotype to it's wretched conclusion.
He at least attempted to strangle the urchin. Speaks volumes about utm_usic's character, though.
I'LL TAKE YOU ALL ON! MUSCLES! FIGHTING! YEAH!
Take the situation if you say found a man attacking your wife gf/daughter whoever and there werent others around.....well if all uyou did was rush over and comfort her
a) he could knock you out and continue to do whatever he was intending to in the first place, how does that help?
b) he might leave at that point but there was no consequence so it is likely that he will be unafraid to have another go when you arnt there again.
Because of situations like this it would seem that the idea to batter him would be quite naturally the best thing to do, so how can you just say this is nonsense behaviour?
of course machismo can be carried very easily to an unpleasent and too extreme degree, but the absense of it is bad too....i think the best way to measure it is, 'would it be karmic for the guy to get his come uppance?' if the answer is yes, then why not help karma?
give it a second and see if the girl is ok then I repeatedly kick the man in the nuts till so he was incapacitated enough for the girl to beat him up.
I prefer to let people fight their own battles lol
on your family, your ancestors, your employers, your girlfriend and yourself. You must now go on a long quest to find your lost respect and honour
and we had been standing near the front the whole time so we could see the band well
this happened to me a few years ago - a 'friend' hit me in a pub, completely unjustifiably [possibly he thought he was joking but he was a big lad and it wasn't fucking funny]. i was shocked and as a gut reaction, hit him back, he hit me right back, harder. it fucking hurt. my boyfriend at the time did and said nothing [he wasn't there when it initially happened but showed up straight afterwards, and i'd have appreciated him at the very least telling the guy he was completely fucking out of order and getting an apology out of him]. i liked him a lot less for it.
often, boys are bigger and physically stronger than girls, and can hurt them a lot more. fact of life. if a guy can defend his girlfriend in a situation where the girl is clearly not going to win the fight [and hopefully do it quickly & decisively rather than getting into a massive stupid brawl], i'm not going to complain.
like i said, it should be quick and effective, i've no time for people who just want to start fights and show off.
i'm not sure that macho posturing would be much use as a defence anyway.
'STAND DOWN! OR I SHALL PUFF OUT MY CHEST, LOWER MY BROW AND GRIMACE AT YOU, SIR!'
then he could intervene. It's unlikely a strange man is just going to come running out of nowhere, quickly punch you and then run away.
some silly billy kept annoying a girl i was with,so i pushed him away,his friend,who i hadnt noticed,punched me in the eye,sent me reeling,girl started clawing at him,i got back up,he ran away
moral of the story;watch out for their mates if you do do anything
understandable that you couldnt have been more decisive.
Of course perhaps the most appropriate action would be to break his arm that he punched with, unfortunately it is rarely possible to achieve the most appropriate outcome
you'd go mental
Mrs knees would expect revenge yet would not want over-the-topness and incarceration and cessation of fatherly duties
It's just part of the fabric of life. It's intuitive.
only the most twee person on earth would think that
but it could help to prevent bullying and nasty pieces of work getting away with whatever they like in areas where there is not adequete other provision.....it is not always possible to secure a conviction for a person who does something bad, yet it is not a morally good thing to let them get away with it, to allow them to continue thinking that they can do it again.
For instance imagine if someone had attacked you with a knife with no provocation, if by luck you managed to disarm them and you then had the opportunity, then you would be wrong to not kick them in the face/incapacitate them, for if you were just to let them go then it is highly likely that they would repeat this on someone else, as there was no consequence for them the first time. Of course it would be silly to try to grapple with someone with a knife if you didnt have to, but if it happened is what i mean. Of course if the police are nearby then you would not need to issue the consequence to the baddy yourself, but it is unlikely that this will be the case
'In e space no one can hear you being sarcastic'
some years ago. He wasn't very happy about it. I can't remember why he why I did this or the gig in question, but he doubtless deserved it.