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If a female friend pinches your arse in a jokey way, is it ever acceptable to pinch hers back?
like hook her and put her in the keep net.
I now understand it to mean violence.
I entirely condone this response.
A little pat on the backside though sure.
I pinched back, obviously (largely 'cos it seemed the best way to get an answer to my initial question in the thread). She didn't seem offended but did look like she'd assumed this wasn't the way it was going to go down.
I'm just leading the march for gender equality.
you're being a cunt
as was she
you're better than that so behave yourself.
I did it in a very non-sexual way. There was nothing lecherous about it and I don't doubt for a second it was obvious to her I was doing it in a "I'm just doing this 'cos you assume I wouldn't" way rather than a "I'm a sleazy fuck who wants a piece of you" way. I wouldn't have done it if I was sure there wasn't any sexual intent whatsoever on either side.
my double-negatives are confusing me there.
so the next time i have my arse smacked by a relative stranger i'll take it all with a pinch of salt, assuming my boyfriend is watching and it's all fine for shits and giggles.
take a step back and listen to yourself man! bum pinching perve :-P
I've never entirely grasped the concept of arse-pinching.
I don't think I've ever seen an arse and felt my instinct was to walk up to the girl it belonged to and surreptitiously pinch it without consent. Clearly it's an instinct some people have but I can't say I do.
do it in a "I'm a sleazy fuck who wants a piece of you" way because, well, I am.
or you will just be holding bum then and looking awkward at each other for a bit and it might not go down to well.
you never know hey
Its crap. You look over and they go ;) and you go :| and think "why not just come and tell me how good you think I am? That's what I do.".
I used to have a completely platonic arse pinching relationship with a girl.
Then she died from heart failure aged 18.
I don't think the two were related though, so pinch away.