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and were sort of "seeing each other" for a while gets a boyfriend and completely lies to your face.
how should i react?
i've really liked this girl for the past two and a half years. up until like half a year ago it was just a crush i had, but then we met up one time and we kissed and stuff, and all was revealed that she was infatuated with me for a while. so we were sort of seeing each other after that for a month or two until one time when we met up she was really really awkward, and had been since that encounter. she told me she still liked me but that the intimacy just didn't feel right. i gave her some space, then i found out by FACEBOOK that she's in a relationship with someone else, and wall posts and whatnot.
this girl is/was near enough perfect for me, and i've never liked a girl this much ever. soppy shit.
i guess she thought you were cool and maybe decided to give it a go, and then lost interest in the process and then met someone more appropriate anyway who she probably really likes if she's calling him her boyfriend.
it's just horrible when she hasn't even told me or anything. i guess she really doesn't like me that much.
except the first guy wasn't really into me so much and vice versa
it probably wasn't much fun for her, being involved with two people emotionally and she did give it a go or whatever, and he just won out for whatever reason, that has more to do with her than you. you'll meet someone much much better soon. at least she was upfront AT SOME POINT. it kind of sucks after getting the big revelation (believe i know what it's like when a friend says they're into you, however momentary it is, and then they're categorically NOT) but you'll get through it
i advocate john maus, a week of vodka nights, and getting hideously drunk at the weekend. smoke a couple of cigarettes, if you don't already. just don't think about it.
and it was genuinely horrible when they changed their mind. it does suck, but you'll be okay :(
i'll do just this. you're a star.
but seriously, iv seen this happen to close friends and its horrid. just don't give her the satisfaction of saying anything and ice her out.
even the muff punch bit...
i had sex with a 14 year old girl when i was 16, which i posted about on here which i shouldn't have. then on a different occasion, i slept with a 17 year old girl who i thought i may have got pregnant, but she was in fact crazy and used this as an excuse for me to go out with her. she wasn't pregnant.
and yeah, i've been a bit of a dick, i'll shut up about the sex and whatnot. there's no need for it.
the girl in this case is 18.
this is the worst bit :(
it's not georgiabeth. at all.
she was a lot harsher to me!
"well i missed that train, too bad"
I missed a train because of a slow old woman, and had to wait 15 minutes for the next one.
shouldve picked her up and carried her
*bodyslammed/ tombstone pildriver-ed her
MOVE OR ILL BREAK YOUR HIP!!!
home-made bread. om nom nom nom nom.
i told her i loved her. she said she loved me.
i backed off completely when i noticed. she said she wanted to see me again soon to see how things were, but obviously that's not going to happen now.
its very gratifying and gets you over it.
that "seduce her mum" has not yet put forward as an answer
im in the same situation!! Whatever you do dont turn up at her place drunk, trying to convince her she's right for you! (like i did last night)
Just forgrt her!
and the day has just begun.
and my posting has just begun.
that have the right mentality, and think rationally like you and I.
But that is an awfully fine minority. I know maybe ONE that I would put in this category.
But yeahonce you find one, marry her cos theyre so rare. The rest of them think they are divine for some prepostorous reason.
i was looking forward to your reply :D
when you debate things with your male mates, even though you start shouting and stuff, you end up tending to come round and see their point of view.
But girls don't. They make up their mind on something and that's it. Then if you do finally get them to listen, they realise they're wrong, and they cry, or say something like "I'm having a really hard time right now" and shift the blame onto you, despite the fact they are the ultimate idiot.
And because we're understanding and fair and just, we feel sorry for them and say "its alright don't worry." and they win.
Apart from a few obv. I'll introduce you all to one who knows where its at one day, honest. Until then good night
changed my life!
You know I only just realised he's back as 'Pigfoot' rather than 'Pigfoot_', fact fans.
Lovely girl but just not physically attractive in any way or really my 'type' personality wise. But its meant I cant leave my room for fear she might be around. I dont think she got the hint that I didnt want to hang around.
when someone ugly thinks they have a chance
a little bit, I wont say 'shallow' but, well, she tried to talk to me about politics and it just didnt make any sense what she was saying.
politics makes no sense to anyone thou its just connected words about abstract crap
still just was not attracted to her. I'd love to be less choosy but at the end of the day i cant be.
gonna try and sleep now, 69 replies.
as patronising as that sounds, sorry
Find the bloke, set fire to his pubes.
Either that or try and forget her, and make sure your next partner is hotter.
You'll get no sense out of me today, if ever.
but don't expect to ever completely get over it. I speak from experience - a quarter of a century on and it still hurts occasionally.
most girls think they are God's gift, and think they can get away with shit like that just because they have the tits. What's sad is, they actually can.
Get over her, forget about her, and one day you'll stumble across someone worth your time. It's a big world.
still fucked off that she hasn't even said a word to me.
prayer to god by shellac and do all will become clear.
and make sure she hears about it.