If you're not actually 'fine', why do you insist, when asked, that you are?
We're not fucking psychics.
I don't say things are fine when they're not.
that fine=not fine. It's like if you go to a shrink that's the taboo word, it's always I'm "well" or "good". Didn't Malcolm in the Middle teach you anything alex?
shes trying to be strong and failing as women always do...u have to let her try thou... then when she finally gives up she'll tell you
also, how long do they spend in the bathroom? Crazy stuff
too right, i never get my time/acceleration/speed combo correct
'When Uranus is fully aligned , expect a turbulent but fulfilling turn of events"
And therefore I'd rather sweat it out in my own time, although sometimes this backfires if I only get more wound up rather than less.
Otherwise I'm not fine, but not pissed, just a bit :( which is current state of affairs most of the time and there's not much that can be said or done to change it.
if she tells you the stupid shit thats bothering her she'll look stupid so doenst want to mention it.
do this thing when if you mention anything being wrong, however minor, they start telling you what you should do about it instead of being sympathetic. Maybe that's why.
there are times when people would rather not answer the question of 'are you ok?' with 'NO YOU'RE A FUCKING BELLEND' or 'FUCK OFF EVERYTHING IS SHIT' because they are being considerate to your feelings or they need to formulate why they are pissed off. deal with it, it's not a female thing, it's an emotional thing.
I remember this girl, wasn't worth the bother.
but I generally am never in a mood or anything
They are not 100% sure why they are upset but it's a series of complex calculations which should result in a decision being made, but the realisation of the future decision that needs to be made is overwhelming to her in this moment so she can't say, in simple terms, what's going on, thus, she is 'fine' until such a time as the decision is made and the world is righted again.
might be the worst ever DiSer.
(I never experienced _vikram).
(ER I can at least sympathise with).
(Joe can still make up for the dodgy stuff THERE IS HOPE ALWAYS no but he's smart enough to be a completely good guy if he tries).
I'm convinced he's still here under a different name.
still_here's never punched someone in a bar and stole a load of alcohol because he was coked up and couldn't remember where he'd left his shitty knock-off coat.
Or if he has, he hasn't posted about it.