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Trapped?
Have you ever got the sense that someone was trying to trap you in a relationship by underhand means?
I split up with a girl after simply telling her I didn't feel that way about her anymore. She cried a bit but seemed to take it relatively well. Then one day a few weeks later she phoned me in tears telling me she was having a terrible time at home and at work and it was all getting on top. Being the kind soul I am I invited her around for lunch and made a nice pasta salad. She must have enjoyed it because she made a pass at me and being the weak willed sap that i am we ended up in bed.
Afterwards when she was getting dressed she turned to me and said "I'm so glad you've come to your senses and changed your mind. I've really missed you" and wth that i realised i had been played like a secondhand fiddle. I then had to stay with her for a few more days whilst I engineered a scenerio whereby i could guilt free dump her again. It was awful.
Anyone else been blackmailed, threatened with suicide, tricked with sex or down right cheated into continuing a relationship?