how long does it take to get over love?

also does it depends on the love, if there are different kinds? great love, true love, plain old love, love?

i was debating this with chiaroscuro a while ago and he said he believed you couldnt truly love someone unless they loved you back. does anyone agree with this? disagree?
what about if the person told you they loved you but didnt really, so you thought they loved you. would that affect this?

has anyone else ever cried thinking about how much they love soemone (when still with that person and everything is fine tra la la)

it must be love love love LOVE LOVE LOVE