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Have you ever usurped someone? or had it done to you?
and most importantly...usurping = a funny sounding word?
but in the final decision, i came off second-best
Was that his name?
just so you know, I'm still with my stolen girlfriend 2 and a half years later
I have done it, and have had someone try and do it to me.
i am sure my former friend sees it that way but i waited 8 months from their official split before i made a move on my ex. they had been on/off for a while before i swept in...
and at the moment i am kinda falling for a lass that another exceedingly good friend has coveted for years. but he never quite pulled it off. crucially, i know she doesn't like me so i can move on...
I only found out when her phone went off at about 3am and he was asking where she was.
had it done to me.
more with the intent to get the girl even thou she had a bf. There was no bf bashing in the process. I have however had it done to me with no holds bared.
Although they're still together 5 years later so maybe it was, ultimately, the right thing for them.
Haven't had it done to me...yet.
an ungainly, but satisfying, word to say
Someone's tried it though. It all turned out alright though, I carved him.
that went without saying.
a long time ago mind. Not pleasent.
Someone once made very clear to me she wanted me to usurp but morality/me not fancying her that much got in the way.
I can assure you that usurping is morally acceptable.
I knew he was with her because he really wanted to be with her and was gonna stick around whereas I also knew that I was only interested 'cos somone else wasn't interested me/I didn't want to be single and that, for that reason, anything that happened would have been short-term grafitying for me and long-term emotionally fucking up for her.
I see it that you have a moral obligation to yourself and anyone you are in some kind of social contract with, but your obligations go no further than that.
that was very difficult, and now i no longer see this girl
my exs bf was and is (im sure) slightly nuts and wanted my ex so one night we end up watching tv in her bf's bedroom and this whole 3 some senario is put out there. Freaks me out cos shes a freak and I just ask my ex if we can leave. I kinda tell my ex that i dont wanna hang with her bf anymore and then her bf goes on one big break us up mission. Worked too, bitch. for the best thou.
when I met her, I think. Count?
Was it her dad?