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It'll all got to pot in a couple of years time and you'll be not knowing where you are your mid-20s.
having a plan which you have to live up to know you've talked about it to your hopeful father!
and seemingly becoming a replacement father figure to your girlfriend's son who is getting bullied. Arrrrgh. Granted, this may be difficult for you in your current state of gender alignment.
and still not a clue. I've just stumbled along til now and don't really see or have enough oomph to do anything about it.
It's a pretty standard state of affairs really.
with the addition of the word 'add'
What sort of rates do you want to act as my PA?
i have a job, money and a lovely missus.
Thats all that matters, right?
i envy you
where i want to be. But as longs as i can support myself and the wifey then i'm not overly bothered as to what im doing.
A sensible solution to a minor problem.
looking towards becomming a captain in the army.
a career and trying to achieve something rather than being in the shit position you're in
being as i don't want to be a front line infantry soldier
something i enjoy and am good at....i look forward to going on tour.
just do what you want to do, not something for the money is something my old man told me and i think there is some logic in that...but hey if you're living fine paying the bills and stuff it's all good.
some don't know what to do, hence the subject title
and no amount of "oh chris'" can try to disprove that fact
that men have another sexual peak around 40. So don't jump ship to quickly.
Then at least you're spared the crushing inevitability of one day having to compromise everything you wanted to achieve. (y)
that you're not supposed to have figured things out by your mid 20s. I'll be 23 by the time i've finished my degree :(
mind up before uni as to what you want to do, then i think you just have to take it as it comes.
and i'm doing one of those degrees where you're not even supposed to know what you want to do after uni, so i reckon it's all good
i didnt go to uni. i couldn't even decide if that was right for me. So i just didn't bother.
and i've decided what i'm *going* to do with my life. whether it's what i want to do...well, i dunno, but i figure i may as well go along with it because it seems decent enough
im approaching my life as a series of projects that last a few years.
"But don't regret the done dirt,
there is no life plan set,
you just swallow the cold
and follow your breath until death."
this is a common feeling
To be honest, I'm surprised more people don't kill themselves.
However hard you work and whatever plans you make,: Some 'Cunt' will take you for a ride.
...Personally I find shaking my fist torwards the sky helps.
ever since, well..... forever.
I'm in my very late 20s and have no idea what I want to do. Who wants to be stuck in the same furrow for 40 years anyway?
Ever tryed shaking your fist at the sky?
I'm not remotely annoyed to mot be stuck in the same thing for 40 years.
Have you ever shook your fist at the sky?
- it goes like this...get educated till 22/23
- go oh fuck i need a job im broke 23/24
- go oh fuck i need to see the world and try and find myself 24/25
- go oh fuck im broke again i need a job 25/26
- go oh fuck what do i do now? 27
Im 27 now :) and all i do is work (not terrible) spend money on music stuff and overly posh holidays. Its not terrible but theres no sense of spirituality or endevour about it.
You're far from being alone in this situation. This time last year I was having a major crisis of what I wanted to do, but stuck my CV on the interwebs, took a chance on a temporary job and it's paid off.
Are you tied down to anything in particular where you are now?
made a lot of musics, gigged for 14 years
hang on...14 YEARS
FUCK...err yeah, I dunno. Might aim to better this:
you're me but 2 years older!
you've improved my mood several fold!
my lunch, which is a downer
I like it, it pays well, there is plenty of room for progression and I imagine I'll work in this field for a while.
What I want to "do" with my life is watch football, play Guitar Hero, read comics, eat pizza, dick around with my friends, go on holiday as much as possible and spend time with my girlfriend.