what would you choose? Of the two I can think of, I think I'd go back to a party just over two years ago. I'd had a fairly intense crush on a considerably older man for some time, and he was at this party. I had the opportunity to ..realise what I felt for him, but for some reason, completely arbitrarily, I went off with someone else, and ended up being in a serious relationship with them until very recently. The night was the equivalent of flipping a coin to decide the future, and I'd be interested to go back and take the other route to see how that would've turned out.