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when you haven't even asked the question?
it just feels a bit unjust that I chose not to ask, because of impending forseen rejection, but STILL get the brush off!
"Do you like me?"
"Uhhhh... I guess so...?"
"Well, I don't want to go out with you."
I mean, I didn't even like him very much. It was a bit annoying.
I didn't really know what to say. I think I just went "Um. Okay." and walked off.
I don't have the cojones to do that.
periodically screaming "Look what you're missing, fuck features! Yeah! Yeah! You like that don't you?!"
That or whipped your top off and said, sorry, you're never seeing this again and walked off.
Who would say no to you? Guy's clearly a douche.
Yeah, he is/was a douche and continues to be.
He won't ever meet up with mutual friends when I'm around because he seems to think I still haven't gotten over him, which is pretty lolsome, considering our "romantic history" basically consisted of the above conversation.
and everyone can laugh at his fail.
I might start just randomly asking girls I am indifferent to that every now and then for my own amusement now in a vague and potentially obstacle-filled attempt to re-create it.
that any more than maybe one out of every eighty or so will say yes. It could take years.
i saw a really hot girl from my course out at a club and asked her for her number so i could meet her at a rave afterwards, but i was shirtless and very sweaty so when the number didnt work i assumed id been knocked back. Thing is i had a gf and wasn't coming on to her, i just thought she thought i was.
i spoke to her recently about it tho +it turns out she lost her fone that night!
so all is well
i have probably about 20hairs on my chest!
only cos i didnt have a pen tho, normally i scrawl everything roughly across my chest
but shes my friend now and is def telling the truth. which is good, cos i was gutted about it for ages!
I got lost halfway through
But a mate got knocked back with "I think you like me much more than I like you" recently, which I thought was a mega shitty thing to do to a guy's ego - even if it was the truth.
have you ever been been told yes (twice), when you have asked a girl if they want to go out for a drink or summit, but never gone on said date because you both knew that she didnt really want to and felt to awkward to say no at the time.
thats a kicker.
technically she still owes me one date. technically.
I am always paranoid when i ask a friend to go for a drink/gig/comedy that she thinks i'm coming onto her.
On one oiccasion, another girl said ' i'm not looking for datesd' when i asked her to a free festival in a group.
I wanted tyo sleep with her, but thats not the point, i didn;t ask her...
I didn't ask, after scoping out a feeling of imdending rejection. Which due to circumstance happened anyway.
we just use to go and do stuff and not anything else. Then one day she said she didn't want to go out with me, I didn't even ask her to go out with me. I was very confused hehe
She then said "we shouldn't be friends anymore." :'(
please report to the emo girls thread.
and she mentions her boyfirend within ten econds of meeting you, she is basically saying 'you fancy me, don't you'.
But, very often she's letting you know that she's astonishingly boring, this will be confirmed by the introduction of terms such as 'My other half' (the verbal equivalent of an Elizabeth Duke broken heart pendant) or 'Partner'......Partner? O RLY, what, are you accountants or something?
like a tree or something.
I asked her about her friend and got the response "Im really sorry, I would but I have a boyfriend and I really like him".
5 seconds of being stunned into silence ended with "Hold up, did you think I was trying to pull you?!" cue an embarrassed 30 seconds of conversation where we both attempted to tell each other we didn't.
To be fair, it was the Sunday night of Reading, a lot of drink had been consumed and we were both fairly deaf. Still though, wtf?