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life'd be so much better.
have a song about this.
you cant live with em you cant shoot em
my girlfriend of 5 years (we were also engaged)thought it was perfectly fine to dump me over the phone. the reason? " i dont want you any more.2 and that was that. and to pour a ton of salt into the wounds. she clealy doesnt give a shit, no emotion whatsoever.
No explanation just 'I don't want you anymore'
I hope she gives the ring back!
I mean in a way that's the reason most relationships end (even though people tend to be diplomatic and try and give a softer-sounding reason than that).
And in the long run it's probably better for both you than her staying with you if she wasn't happy. Hopefully in time mrstu'll find someone who appreciates him.
She maybe could have done it better but if she knows it over its better to be harsh, rather than soften it down leaving you hanging on thinking there's a chance in the future.
Sorry though mate.
in thes matters
I hope not.
I really am being sincere.
You hit me up with some sympathy the other day!
and i'll share my tales of romantic woe. sounds like we could swap a few.
but as meths rightly points out, she sounds a loser anyway - who dumps someone after five years and an engagement OVER THE PHONE.
Weak willed and a woman without any spine or integrity - honestly, she did you a favour.
she's a complete coward...5 years of a relationship and it ends over the phone? pretty much be grateful for the lucky escape! hope you're ok xx
but i do wish i could switch off fancying people.
....life'd be so much less stressful
I was thinking about making a thread about this today.
My mind did me a favour last night: it has switched my mind off from fancying a girl (given that she's a lost cause and all) by giving me a special dream. In this dream I was happily going out with this girl, when I discovered that she had mouldy boobs with a mass of thick, black, spiderlike hairs growing out of the underboob area. And when I tried to kiss her there was a big, bright pink flowery infection thing on her tongue.
If I could somehow transfer this dream to other people - Total recall style - I would be a very rich man.
this post will come up whenever someone googles GEORGE PRINGLE
That is messed up.
that really does suck; sorry to hear that. As with anything though, time will heal...it's just being patient which is far easier to say than do.
Hope things are better soon =)
thank you all very much for your words, as made me feel slightly better (not much mind, lol!) i appreciate it. x
and as yet ahe hasnt mentioned the ring.
thats meant to say she not ahe
I went through the same thing recently see this thread;
Believe me it does get easier in time - although as a quick update my ex told me a week after she'd dumped me that she had started seeing her boss (she had only worked there a month)!!
I asked for my ring back last week - sold it on Saturday for £500 and am now going to New York in August
Keep your chin up!!
its very difficult tho, i have on auto pilot since it happened and the most stupid things get me bawling. the other night i made the factual mistake of watching 'eternal sunshine of the spotless mind' again. anyone whos seen this film will know why it was a bad idea to watch it.
There is nothing i can say to make you feel better
But i would advise that you avoid all uneccessary contact.
I have had to speak to my ex every day for the last 7 weeks(due to sorting out our old flatand various other money stuff) and it makes it 100 times worse - especially as she has moved on to another relationship so quick and im stuck on my own!!
I feel your pain but remember she is to blame not you!!! As soon as you accept that it DOES get easier believe me
your right mate, thanks.
and engaged for 2 and half of thoose years so yes ive met her in the flesh...
everythings great when you are a kid you just exist, I think thats what it would be like to be asexual
innocence of youth, god i miss it!
because the whole "I'm gay because I was born this way" argument wouldn't really work then would it.
for making my misery your internet joke of the week
....i posted her the last of her stuff this morning. not sure if i put enough stamps on tho....whopps!
i meant whoops
MAN (or asexual man-woman hybred).